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"I believe in a long, prolonged, derangement of the senses..."
The Kink
26 year old, single, experienced female sadomasochist (switch). Currently seeking an experienced, sadistic partner as I am predominantly a masochist.
Open to a long term relationship, but enjoying life in the meantime.
First, please be clear on the difference between a masochist and a submissive. I do not enjoy and will not partake in degradation, humiliation, or related acts. If you are looking for a meek and mild sub to be degraded/humiliated, I'm not for you.
I am a strong willed, self aware and emotionally healthy woman who is comfortable with her darker desires. I demand respect from my partner. I do not break... if anything I find great strength in pain. I am a true masochist and for me this is not about control (though physical control of course plays a part) but about sensuality. I want to be pushed to the edge of my limits, and then coaxed beyond them.
It will require a great deal of experience to take me on. This is not to say I will not submit, in my way, for the right man. Please also understand that I will not switch with one person. If I am able to Domme you, I will never see you as dominant to me again.
I am intellectual and to consider a long term partner, he will need to be able to equal my mind and use my intelligence to turn me on.
Turn ons include but not limited to: Bondage, knife play, blood play, spanking/flogging/whipping, wax play/burning, electro-stimulation, pressure points, restraint, orgasm control, watersports.
I am open to one off meets with sadists - or doms who understand the remit of my pleasures but are not looking for a relationship, but will be less inclined to engage in RACK play without that level of trust or intimacy.
For those who ask: 5' 1", size 18, 36H, long red hair, blue eyes, pale skin.
For the attentive who have noticed I currently have a sub under consideration, this does not mean I am no longer looking for myself - but I take my responsibility as a Domme/Sadist seriously. My sub is a sissy boy and his emasculation means I do not allow him a full physical relationship with me, but he has a cuckold fantasy. Therefore, if I enter a long term arrangement he can serve. Should this not be a desired dynamic, and I am willing to commit to a Dom myself, I would expect to be allowed to ensure he is passed on to a deserving and safe Mistress and to assist him in that process.
".... Take me to bed, and rip me apart."
The Vanilla
Confident, passionate, and unapologetically honest. I take no prisoners, but am in no way lacking in compassion.
I have a stable and successful career and home, and am free to devote my attentions to those things that make life worth living.
Usually, this takes the form of immersing myself in nature; long walks and losing myself in my surroundings (truly, I have next to no sense of direction).
Also often found at live music events be it gigs, open mics, or jamming with beautiful people. Playing board games, on day trips (castles, ruins etc), at museums and lectures, or sometimes in a nice country pub.
Lover of literature (talk dirty to me), lychees, late nights, and probably some other things that begin with 'L'.
Some might call me a social butterfly, a friend recently called me a 'social whore', I think I prefer that.
Less often than I would like these days, I find a little time to work on social inclusion projects focused at providing practical solutions to local need, poverty alleviation and community cohesion.
Creative, spiritual, and a strong believer in saying and doing today what you may not get the chance to say or do tomorrow.
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