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I like all kinds of girls - tall, short, skinny, big, older than me, younger than me. The most important thing is their personality.
They don't need to be submissive all the time - not looking for a doormat. Hell, feisty can be quite fun as well.
I'm what I'd term a sadistic dominant, in that being sadistic itself doesn't do much for me outside of the control it gives me.
Domination is the big turn on for me. From small things like what the sub/slave can wear to mental bondage to total power exchange.
What I want in a girl is of course difficult to say for certain with one exception - she needs to be intelligent. Meaning she needs to be able to hold a decent conversation and argue her position in a discussion. I'm a dom, not some stubborn idiot who refuses to believe that he could ever be wrong. And unlike some men, I have no inferiority complex with regards to education or income - if she makes more money than I do, I can't really see that as a problem myself. I have a similar attitude towards jealousy - I don't get it.
Experience isn't as important as a willingness to learn in my book. That goes both ways - for instance I'd love to learn the art of Shibari, and if I met a sub who was an expert, I'd be a willing and patient student, but I'm not making any promises with regards to skill. It's not a problem for me, if the girl is inexperienced either. I can be extremely patient when needed.
I'm not a "leather dom" or anything like that - I have no clothing fetishes, so don't expect or worry that I'll show up for a date dressed like something out the Blue Oyster Bar. I try to dress in what I consider nice clothes - suit and tie. Obviously the tie and belt serve practical purposes as well.
I had my start in my mid to late twenties, and I mostly do domination - like I said, sadism in and of itself doesn't do anything for me. That being said - having a masochist tied up and spanking, caning or flogging her definitely does something for me, so don't worry about that part, if you're more masochistic than submissive. And since I am quite imaginative and inventive, I have been known to cook up some very evil punishments in my time - unfortunately I haven't gotten around to checking, if it is possible to order the Naga Viper chilli pepper online yet. And if you're not a masochist - don't worry, I'll keep the really evil stuff tucked away.
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