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EddieB1271

Hi...I’m Eddie. I'm a sadistic top with a dominant streak who is in an open relationship of two years (Grauekatzederl) and I'm looking for people who like pain to play with. I'm experienced in various forms of impact play, cutting, needles, obedience training and a smattering of other things that I like to use to help my bottoms reach new limits in their BDSM journey. Whether you are new or experienced, I'm sure we can talk and find something we would both like doing. Even if my kinks aren't your kinks, I'm still looking for people to chat with so maybe we can do that.

My Play Style


I am a sadistic top with a passion for tears who will happily play with any gender, color, or creed. I will always prefer to play with those who have a high pain threshold and who like to have their boundaries pushed. I will usually be happy to add D/s, humiliation, sexual aspects and/or role play to what ever other sadistic play I am doing. While I prefer all things sadistic, I am not beyond negotiating for the non-sadistic for those of you who are beginners or experimenting with certain play forms. After all, I might help someone discover a masochistic streak in themselves...and that is always fun }:) My forms of play tends toward:
  • Cutting- The cutting I do is only for sadistic purposes and I usually incorporate it with Needle Play. The cuts I make are placed to be painful with minimal blood and then played with to increase the pain. I do not do artistic cutting.
  • Impact- I am experienced in impact for the back area, buttocks, chest, and genitals. My favorite impact tools are floggers, cat-o-nines, vampire gloves, shot gloves, and Wartenburg Wheels.
  • Needles- I have been doing Needle Play for a little over 5 years and have taught classes on the subject. I have pierced with as big as a 16 gauge needle and I'm experienced in needle impact and predicament needle bondage. I teach Needle Play to anyone who is responsible and has the time to learn
  • Rough Body Play- Take downs and punching; I have assisted in a few kidnapping scenes.

Hard Limits


  • The use of gags
  • Harming animals
  • Scat
  • Urine
  • Vomit
  • Farting

Scene Negotiation


I don't want anyone to become harmed during any scene, especially mine. There must always be well communicated negotiations or I won't even consider playing. Before what is going to happen during our scene is even discussed you can expect me to ask...
  • If you have any physical or mental health issues that might become an issue while playing. This includes triggers.
  • If you go into deep sub space or become non-communicative. If you tell me that either of these occur then I'll want to know what method you use to call RED; whether it be dropping a ball,scarf, or the like. If you don't have a method then we can discuss one but If we can't come up with a method then we can't play.
  • If you like to make any loud noises during play or if you cry.
  • If negotiations are fluid, able to be changed during the scene, or solid, unable to be changed during the scene. If you know you go into deep sub space or become non-communicative please do not ask for fluid negotiations. Also, please be aware that if you request solid negotiations that I will not change what is decided on without the scene coming to an end. Anything desired that is sexual in nature MUST be negotiated before any scene. I will not engage in anything sexual that hasn't been negotiated first.
So there are my rules...all pretty straight forward and simple. I look forward to speaking to you soon...