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I AM ACCEPTING APPLICATIONS FOR A SLAVE Or PERSONAL SERVANT POSITION
READ ENTIRE PROFILE BEFORE WRITING ME.
No exceptions to this rule will be made.
I will not respond to subbie's that cant follow this simple order...also, if your profile has no face pic, and you dont send one, there is no way I would even consider replying
that out of thw way...
let me say Hello,
I'm a African American Domina looking for my perfect personal sub.
Although I am sometimes a Pro-Domme I'm seeking a more permanent lifestyle. I am also open to poly (perhaps) and believe in being true to myself, so if your the type that wants to be the only one then I may not be the one for you (but you never know)
My Ideal Person:
Is Submissive( No Switches sorry)
I want longevity.
I will only consider local guys or girls who apply. Being that I have so much responsibility with my pro world I only have time for the ONE I seek to collar. If your not in NYC please don't bother writing. I'm not seeking long distance training because it lacks mental stimulation. Basically it does nothing for me. I'm more a one on one type of Dominant.
I want a live-in pet that lives in NYC or nearby ONLY. Meaning: If your in the process or considering relocating then the best advice for you is to contact me when you get here. I want to find someone to wake up to every morning knowing that my pet is either sleeping at the foot of the bed or on the floor beside me like a good loyal puppy. I'm not looking to prolong this search and expect to find someone within a month or less. Chemistry is instant. Its either there or its not at all. I want to be able to connect on a spiritual & mental level with someone who has respect for his owner and respect for the scene we love.
Trust yourself in the hands of a skilled domina that seeks a REAL subbie. No need to reply if your not looking for what is mentioned in my profile. I am open to meeting a house boy too, and ultimately I'm seeking to collar.
My Ideal Person:
IM A REAL LIFESTYLE MISTRESS
So don't contact me if your not a REAL SLAVE/SERVANT
To qualify
You must be
25-45 with ideally at least 2 years minimum experience as a domestic servant
Financially secure with few obligations/ discreet/preferred/single/licensed driver is required.
If you do not fit my strict guidelines then please don't waste your time or mine by responding.( I CANT STRESS THAT ENOUGH)
What I'm not looking for and will not accept is:
Flakes
Bratty subbies
Bossy bottom's
Newbies To The Scene.
Lets talk and see if we are a great match.
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With all these new people who are begging to meet me, I was thinking, the first time we meet. Instead of saying "hello" or shaking hands or somesuch as a greeting.... how about i just slap you in the face, really hard. I feel like it would set the right tone, right from the start. I don't know if it would be practical... especially since i would be meeting anyone new in a public place. or even if I really want to do it (sometimes ideas in my brain, that seem fun or kinky, wind up just being kinda awkward when actually acted upon). Then again, maybe I am just thinking this way because I have built up too much agression lately, perhaps a trip top the gym would "cure" this urge even more than giving out a good slap.
Oh, and another thing, I am usually pretty neat, but with the holidays and all, my apartment has gotten really messy... now why not just avail myself to one of the many house boys who would love to clean? well its actually too messy for that. I mean, I feel like I have to clean it up a little first, just so there is a general order to the place, before a boy can really work, otherwise i spend more time explaining, and thats annoying. So, just been lying around the couch the last few days, talking to friends, playing with myself like 5 times a day (we're supposed to be honest in our journals right, lol) and watching old movies. But my friends did take me out last night, and I'm going to a dinner party tonight... and if I get out before its too late, there's a sub who wants to buy me a drink in Chelsea, so I might let him. Other than that, hope everyone is enjoying the quiet between the storms of Christmas and NYE. kisses..Miss ET |
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with the coming winter storm i just saw the following headline
"NYC to get 8 inches"
I'm soooo jealous! |
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oh and another thing...
why is every sub,
"dominant in my real life, and submissive in the bedroom" ?
dude, i guarantee, that is just YOUR opinion,
if you asked your co-workers
they would NOT be like "Oh that dude is dominant or Alpha male"
they might be like, "oh he's relatively successful", or "he's a hard worker"
but if you walk around seeking a Dominant partner, and you do so in a submissive way, I can pretty much tell you are submissive, (and by that I mean submissive across the board), and the although you might be hard-working, the focus of your work is pleasing someone else, the boss, the client, etc...
I think that "dominant in my real life, and submissive in the bedroom"
just means that you are submissive,
but you try to hide it outside of your fantasy life.
For a girl like me, who wants a non-wussy guy,
who wants to submit to me,
Well, I'll just have to keep looking
I do dread posting this entry because now i will get a rush of guys saying "Oh Mistress I am different, I am really Alpha, just want to submit to you"
God, is there anything more tedious than sub guys pleading their case that they are not full-time submissives...
well, yes there is
submissive guys that want to devote themselves to me full-time, and completely just based on having read my profile....pathetic!
Whatever happened to getting to know someone, and THEN deciding if after you know HER, if you want to serve her ?
Alas, will I ever find my Needle in the haystack?
I feel like I will have to create and mold my perfect man myself, why cant any man just be awesme already without me having to devote myself to making him into what i want, and making him "My Project"?
I want an already assembled, perfect (for me), sub male.
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ok...
I might delete this post, so guys, especially sub guys take note while its here.
desperation, even in a sub is NOT attractive.
being needy, desperate, having no confidenence is not attractive to women.
Heres the secret,
you guys always try to act like you are what we seek,
but we are way more intuitive, so we have a pretty good idea of who's real, and whos not...
we do get fooled sometimes,
so thats why we are always testing you.
Here's another big secret,
almost everything a woman does in the first few hours (or days) she knows you is a test of some sort.
We are experts at this,
so I dont really care if you know.
Also, dont try to sell yourself,
this just comes across as needy,
and needing my approval,
after we are together (if that should ever happen, I want you to be devoted to getting my appoval)
but if we don't even know each other and you are pledging eternal servitude, that just comes across like you are a loser.
so, dont just be that average guy, saying how hot I am,
I have been hot since I was about 15
This being NYC i get about 10 guys a day either hitting on me, or saying I am attractive in one form or another, not to mention about 10-12 meassages a day on here saying how awesome/cute/sexy etc i am...
that adds up to well over 34,000 compliments, lines, approaches, attempts to meet me, or get into my pants...
trust me, there is nothing you can say that I havent heard, and coming at me with the same "you are so hot" or "I would do anything for you" is not going to get you anywhere.
Try something unique,
don't be so willing to surrender yourself before we even met,
don't be suck a sucker and fall for every test i put up there....
have some balls,
and some personality,
true i want submissive, but not boring
do whatever I say types before we are even close.
be mysterious,
think of yourself as the prize too.
...that I have to even say this is kinda ridiculous, but so many guys are so clueless, just think of it as my christmas present to you all.
by the way, whether you know it or not, the advice i am giving here is so golden, I hesitate as a woman to even give it (am I betraying the sisterhood to even say such things, I wonder?)
Nonetheless, most guys will not only NOT take it, but they are in such denial, or have been brainwashed by society so much that they will rebel against it, and lash out at me for even saying such truths. Of course they are guys wh are rarely getting laid, and rarely getting any quality women in their lives....
But back to my point,
How to do this, you ask?
Um, I could write a book
but I don't want to give ALL the secrets out...
but I do have one thing I can tell you that might help.
I had one sub that served me from time to time...
I hadn't seen him in some time,
as he had moved out of state.
He sent me an email saying he was visiting NYC,
and I had him come over to do some cleaning for me, and be my valet, help me get ready for a date.
Now he was always cool, but I never thought of him in a sexual way, or was really attracted to him in that way, even though he was cute enough, I had previously only used him as a house boy.
Something had changed this time though, I coldnt put my fnger on it, but I wound up cancelling my date, and sat on his face all night, amopng other things.
Later I asked him what had changed, and he told me about how he read The Game by Neil Strauss, a book on how to be more attractive to women, and advice from a secret society of Pick Up artists (later made famous by VH1s The Pick Up artist)
So, i told him to send me his copy, which he did,
at first i was angry, "had I been fooled, by tricks?"
but then as I read on, I was like, "Oh, thats just good advice, I wish more guys would follow it"
(the book is available for free in most libraries, and you can browse it in Barnes and Noble for free, not to mention that for those who use bit torrents, it is available as a free download in many places, so I am hardly here to try to sell books, I could care less about that)
but, thinking about the info in this book,
make me realize,
If they change their behavior to make themselves more attractive to me, we both win,
thats why I even mention it
besides...
being a dominant Woman, who wants subs that actually have a personality, and are cool (and of course still submit to me) I was actually surprised to read a book that wasnt all touchy-feely, new agey stuff like communicate better, ask her about her feelings, but actual advice that really touched at the way woman and men think.
There are many other ways to just not come across as a loser, so by all means, if you find your own way to do so, take advantage of it, also just watch guys who women actually do like.... and if you are a sub, watch sub guys who consistantly get wonderful, Dominant women, and see what they are doing, talk to them, ask them, and just observe, sometimes naturals are doing things that even they are not aware of, but I can assure you it is not an accident that they are consistantly found to be attractive (and more often than not it has little to do with wealth or looks, than the desperate guys will admit)
I cant tell you how many good subs, and even vanilla men I have dated, and really liked, only lter drive me away due to the fact that they started acting all "wussy" and needy
The cool guy that I first met, wanted to serve me is who I wanted, but after we got close, you lost "yourself" and you just started seeing the world through my eyes.... that is most unattractive.
I want you to be you, and I want that guy to serve me, dont change every little thing about you, to just please me, If i want you to change, I will let you know, but until then, just have some balls, some confidence, and feel free to be yourself.
Well, thats my rant for the day, I hope that this allows some of the guys on here to start being a little more bold, and I hope it helps some subs realize that you can be an awesome dude, and serve me at the same time.
xoxo
ET |
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| Age: 49 |
| Holby city uk,
United Kingdom |
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