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I now have a collared sub in my possession. So we are only looking for female play partners. She is a very tiny 18 year old that just loves to be played with. If you are 18 - 30 and want to play with us, shoot me a message. No she is not on CollarMe. The life of a Phoenix is one of birth, joy, sorrow, pain, death, and then rebirth from its own flaming ashes. Endlessly repeating. Endlessly looking for the one that will fly the currents of lust, love and pain with it, time everlasting. This has been my journey, my life, endlessly looking for my bound mate.

"Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all." Alfred Lord Tennyson I have felt the death of love, had it reborn, only to have it wither away once again. The endless cycle of a Phoenix. I am the Phoenix, good at heart, respectful, honest, and true.

I am Dark, a sadist, quiet control, demanding, and lustful. Accepting of power given to me. Reserved in its use, holding it tightly to me.

Looking, endlessly searching, listening to the winds for a song, the voice that will once again fill my heart with joy, time everlasting. I shed my tears freely when alone. I laugh openly when amused by word or action. My words are reserved, soft spoken but always said with purpose and intent, there meaning never hidden.

I am a Dark Phoenix, a creature of lust and pain, that will open my heart to true love and pure emotions. Time everlasting.

Searching

I have been in this lifestyle for 18 years. I was Mentored by an Old Guard Master that had lived the lifestyle for over thirty years. I am Old Guard.

I am always available to answer questions from subs or slaves that are new to the lifestyle or experienced subs/slaves looking for advise.

My greatest enjoyment is teaching the lifestyle and passing on my experience. I love talking about the lifestyle, having intelligent conversation, the philosophy, the psychology of the lifestyle and all it's variations.

I am heavily into bondage, orgasm control, forced orgasm and giving varying levels of pain. Hard bondage, Humiliation, objectification, ass play, some role plays, sensory deprivation, breast torture and many other fetishes also top the list.

I will teach you the protocols, rules and positions that I want you to live by but if your mind is not in a place to learn them, you are most likely not what I am looking for and won't be able to live it 24/7. I can be sensual or extreme, a lover or a complete sadist, as the mood strikes me. I have a small Daddy Dom in me but I am a Master first.

I do not cybersex, it does nothing for me. I'll talk about the lifestyle, I will spend time getting to know you, but don't expect me to type out a scene with you. I will want to meet you in person.

If you are not around my area, be willing to visit and eventual relocate. I will Skype with you if you are long distance so be ready and able to do that. I will not start something long distance if you are not willing to show yourself.

I do have certain tastes in women, everyone does. I want a sub or slave that has a heart and is willing to open it to me. A sub or slave who's mind is actually in this lifestyle, ready to follow rules and protocols.

Personality matters more to me but physical attraction cannot be dismissed. I like younger women, fit and healthy or working toward those goals.

Everyone has limits, I respect those limits.

Hard Limits: I draw the line at blood play. I am not in to cutting, needles, drawing blood, or scat. I started my journey as a young, angry, misguided, and confused boy. I was walked all over by women, mentally and emotionally abused. I was going down a path that would have seen me doing the same to others. One person saw the way I was going, that I was going down a destructive path. He helped me, took me under his wing, taught me how to turn my life around, how to be constructive, passionate, in control of myself, and how to be a Master. I spent my first two years in this lifestyle as his slave. I willingly submitted to him, not sexually but mentally. I was taught by him how to be the Master I became then sent out into the world to find my one. Master Timothy and his slave of thirty years showed me this lifestyle, showed me that there is someone out there for me. Eighteen long years later, still searching. I have trained fourteen subs, I am not counting the subs that I only had one or two scenes with. Fourteen subs that gave there gift of submission to me and wore my collar. Some for a short time, a month or two, and some for a couple years or more. In each I gave them my heart, for you can not have someone submit to you without feelings, You can not have someone submit to you without your heart getting involved. I am not above foolish mistakes, I am not above making grave errors in judgement. I lost a couple of my subs to these errors and it hurt to know I was the cause, it hurt to know that I caused them unwanted pain. The others though, I gave them my heart, my Dominance, my full attention, desires, my training. I accepted the power they gave me and cherished it. Never abusing what they gave to me willingly. But in the end they have all moved on. The reasons, varied, "It's not what I though it would be like", "I'm not ready for a relationship", "I found someone else" or they exceeded what I was willing to do for them and stepped over my own hard limits. I have searched long and hard for my one. I have given of myself to those that needed guidance, a firm hand, a tender touch. I have given goals to be reached for, made hard choices for those that didn't want that responsibility on their own shoulders. I have been strong for those that needed strength in their lives. I have trusted with my heart, respected with my mind, and loved with my soul. If my one is out there, I have not found her. I don't know if my one will ever be found, I will keep searching.

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Basic rules: They must be followed at all times and are not subject to change.
 
1) Obedience - The sub/slave will be obedient to Master at all times.
  a) You may question instructions and orders for clarification and understanding.
  b) Disobedience will be punished in a manner consistent with the disobedience.
  c) Playful disobedience is considered play and will be treated as such.
 
2) Loyalty - The sub/slave will be loyal to Master at all times.
  a) The sub/slave may speak to friends and other female subs. You can be as clean or dirty in these conversations as you like.
  b) The sub/slave may not share nude or erotic photos with anyone without Masters permission.
  c) The sub/slave may not friend new Dom/Masters without Masters permission.
  d) The sub/slave may retain friendships with Doms/subs that the sub had prior to submitting to me. The sub/slave however is not allowed to play with anyone with being directed to do so by her Master.
 
3) Honesty - The sub/slave will be completely honest with her Master.
  a) The sub/slave will answer all of Master's questions.
  b) The sub/slave will bring all of her concerns to her Master, even if the sub/slave is afraid to upset her Master she will be honest.
  c) The sub/slave will be honest with herself.
  d) The sub/slave is allowed to plan surprises for Master. This is not considered being dishonest unless Master asks her a Direct question about what she is doing, then the sub/slave may just say she is planning a surprise.
 
4) Health - The sub/slave will take care of her health and appearance.
  a) The sub/slave will eat healthy.
  b) The sub/slave will exercise, maintain or improve body tone. 
  c) The sub/slave will take steps to remain medically fit. If she is sick how can she see to Masters need.
 
5) Owned - The sub/slave is owned by Master. The sub/slave's body is no longer hers.
  a) The sub/slave will not play/masturbate or otherwise give herself pleasure without permission from Master.
  b) The sub/slave will not orgasm without permission from Master.
  c) The sub/slave will learn to orgasm on command from Master.
  d) Master will use his property as he pleases. (within set limits of the sub/slave at the time of her submission to Master) *these limits may change over time but not without talking with Master first.
 
The following are subject to change at any time with short notice.

1) The sub/slave will keep a daily journal of her thoughts/emotions/experiences.
  a) The sub/slave will not be punished for anything written in the journal
  b) The sub/slave will provide the journal to Master daily so he may read it.
  c) The sub/slave may use any format to write her journal but it must be readily available to Master.

2) The sub/slave will kneel at the foot of the bed each night for five minutes. During this time she will meditate on her submission. She will also recite the submissive's prayer.

3) * The sub/slave when entering Master's home will remove her clothing, fold them neatly, and kneel at the entrance until Master greats her and allows her to move.

4) * The sub/slave will great Master at the door naked and kneeling when he comes home. The sub/slave will remain that way until the Master allows her to move.

* These rules are suspended when in the presence of children, family, or friends that are not in the know about the dynamic of the relationship. These exception may not be suspend around some family or friends that are in the know and understand the dynamic of the relationship. This will discussed and a list made of who.
 
5) The sub/slave will keep Master's home clean and tidy at all times.

6) The sub/slave will address Master as Sir at all times.

7) The sub/slave will keep track of assigned punishments if I can not administer them at the time of the offense. If the sub/slave fails to remind Master of a punishment she deserves the punishment will be doubled.

8) The sub/slave will defer to Master when it comes to all non day to day decisions. If I am not available, I trust you to make the right choice, but not go against any standing instructions or rules.

9) The sub/slave and Master will always discuss matters of importance. The final decision will always rest with Master. This is not negotiable. You will not argue or complain. You will accept Masters decision and go with it.

10) If at any time if Master feels that you are being bitchy or pissy, Master will ask you to stop and that is exactly what you will do.

11) You shall kneel on the floor at Masters feet whenever he sits unless otherwise instructed.

12) When Master come home, Master is what is most important. Whatever the sub/slave is currently doing can wait until Master says you may return to whatever it was.

13) The sub/slave is not allowed to wear cloths in Masters home unless they have been approved by Master in advance.
a) The sub/slave is allowed panties during the monthly cycle
b) The sub/slave is allowed to request items be put on the approved list
 
Protocols
There will be several levels of protocol for you to follow. You will use normal protocols at all times. Other levels will be used as directed, in specific places, or at specific times.
 
Normal
The basic idea of this level is that, while you will not be unduly restricted, your main attention and focus should be on me as my submissive.
 
1) You will wear your collar at all times or will be on your body at all times.
  a) It may be on your wrist or ankle when at work or around family.
2) You may not use furniture (except ottomans and tables) or walls unless directed to.
3) You will remain close enough for me to reach out and touch you at any time.
4) When standing, you should keep you arms behind your back in your normal posture stance.
  a) Otherwise, you retain freedom of posture, movement, gaze, etc., but you should strive to remain symmetrical and graceful in your positions. You will keep enough attention on me to respond to my voice, gestures, etc., without my having to purposely get you attention. (This is very important. Lapses will be punished)
5) You will sustain eye contact with me, when I am speaking.
6) You will strive to please me with actions like foot rubs, leg rubbing, or whatever you anticipate would bring me pleasure (while realizing that this is not a test and you may ask me what would please me if you are not sure)
7) You will not use foul language or even mild curses.

Casual
The basic idea of this level is that we are a happy couple casually attending a social function together in a kink-friendly atmosphere.
 
1) You will wear your collar.
2) You will offer me drinks and food when we arrive.
3) You may get drinks and food for yourself without asking permission.
4) You may mingle freely, but will notify me if you intend to leave the room.
5) All of our regular rules/protocols ("yes, Sir", handing protocols, cursing, etc.) apply
6) You will remain alert to possible signals from me (such as hand signals from across the room, or me saying "angel") - I should not need to "hunt you down" in order to change protocol levels or give you an instruction. (if you've given me notification that you will be in another room, that is a valid exception.)
7) There are no restrictions on speech, eye contact, socializing, furniture use, etc.

Formal
1) You may not use furniture.
2) When instructed to assume a position, you will remain in that position until told otherwise.
3) You will keep your head pointed forward and down at all times.
4) You may not ask questions, but you may otherwise speak to me freely, consistent with striving to please and obey me.
5) You may not speak to anyone else unless either a) I indicate that you should, or b) it would be rude to remain silent. (e.g., someone asks you a direct question).
6) You will begin all line spoke to me with the word "Sir" or "Master".
7) I will begin all statements to you with "My angel" (You will respectfully notify me if I fail to do this.)
8) You will focus your attention solely on me unless instructed to interact with another person or .
 
Scene
This protocol level is considered to begin when I ask you to remove your clothing at the start of a scene, and to end when you have put your clothing back ; it does not need to be specified.
 
1) No protocols outside of our general rules apply.
2) You will do your best to obey me, subject to you responsibility to help us both remain safe and sane.
3) We will both accept that I will risk your failure to obey me by giving you instructions that may be too difficult to obey completely. This is part of the scene and not considered a failure of your submission to me. Failure is not "actually" punishable although consequences may be part of the scene.

Eating
1) When out to eat, Sir orders for you.
2) You do not eat until Sir gives you permission, often that permission will be just a nod of the head.
3) You will serve Sir his meals after he has finished cooking. You will server Sir first before getting your plate ready. Sir always gets the bigger piece of meat, the biggest baked potato, and so on.
4) You will ask permission to eat via text or call when we are apart. This include before eating lunch at work.

Dressing
1) You will dress to please Me. I like dresses and skirts with stockings and no panties. (exception of when you are on your period).
2) I will not control what you wear day to day. I may make suggestions to you if we are going out, you will try your best to accommodate my suggestions.
3) You will keep an outfit at my house that you know pleases me. This may come from your current clothes or be purchased for this purpose.

Sleeping
1) You will kneel before bed and do five minutes of meditation.
2) You ask permission to enter the bed.
3) You will be in bed by 9pm each night unless told otherwise.
4) I may chain you to the bed or make you wear cuffs to bed randomly.

Privacy
1) You are not allowed to close doors without permission within the house. (i.g., the bathroom, bedroom.)
Not together Protocols
1) You will text me when you get out of bed in the morning.
2) You will text me when you leave the house in the morning.
3) You will text me anytime you need to leave the house and let me know where you are going.
4) You will text me before going to bed each night after you have completed your kneeling.
5) You will text me when you go on lunch.
6) You will keep me informed of all plans you have with family or friends.
7) You will send me a photo of what you are wearing each day to work or when leaving the house.
 
Sexual
1) You will do everything possible to please me sexually.
2) You will make sure that "Sir" cums at least once a day when we are together.
3) You will not cum unless given permission. You may ask or beg for permission.
4) This is the only time you are allowed to use dirty words. You may use them to entice and tease Master.
 
Health & Hygiene
1) You will maintain the best possible Hygiene.
2) Your legs and pussy will be shaved at all times. If you can not maintain this yourself, I will take you to have your legs and pussy waxed.
3) You will wear perfumes of my liking.
4) You will drink at least 3 glasses of water each day
5) You will eat proportionately to maintain or improve your current figure but you are not allowed to starve yourself.

These rules and protocols are not all inclusive and may be added to. You will use your best judgement at all times.


submissive's Prayer
Allow me the Serenity to serve Him in peace
Allow me the Love to show Him myself
Allow me the Tenderness to comfort Him
Allow me the Light to show us the way
Allow me the Wisdom to be an asset to Him
Let me be able to show Him each day my love of service to Him
Let me open myself up to completely belong to Him
Let me accept my punishments with grace
Let me learn to please Him beyond myself
Grant me the power to give myself to Him completely
Give me the strength to please us both
Permit me to love myself in loving Him
 

Master, owner of my body
Master, owner of my body and director of my will, you are with me always. I am thankful that I serve you. Let me be transparent as glass, that my heart may be visible always, for my entire self, even unto the workings of my mind, are yours. Master, I honor you with my service and submit to you with my thoughts, words, and deeds, so that I may be a reflection of your will, and the manifestation of your desires.
 
I am your slave
Master, I am your property. I will work and I will sacrifice that I may reflect your intentions, and make of myself a window to the soul you own. Use me Master, as you see fit, that I may learn to serve and to submit to you in all things.
 
In Gratitude
In gratitude I serve, and in thankfulness I submit, and in peace I honor my Master with my trust.mit

to you in all things.
In Gratitude
In gratitude I serve, and in thankfulness I submit, and in peace I honor my Master with my trust.


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S&M
Do you enjoy sadomasochism? If so, do you find pleasure more in pain itself or more in the idea of "taking the pain" for your Dom's enjoyment? What about receiving marks? Have you ever experienced subspace?

Sensation Play
Are you easily aroused to a point of orgasm? Do you enjoy being played with either via sensation play or by being poked, probed and prodded? How about genital play? Do you enjoy vibrators, insertibles and being enjoyed sexually?

Bondage
How much interest does bondage hold for you? If so, does the idea of being intricately tied up in an artistic manner appeal or is it more the idea of being restrained?

Exhibitionism
How much of an exhibitionist are you? What about ification? How does the idea of being on display as a highly desirable sexual creature sound? This can be as tame as wearing a slightly risqué outfit to a fetish ball to performing with me for an audience?

Rules and Protocols
Are you ready and willing to accept the rules and protocols of a Master?
 
Limits
Do you know what your Hard and Soft limits are?


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Misslittleone2
 
 Age: 25
 Rockingham, Australia