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DriftingSoul

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I am a service-oriented masochistic female boy who has found deep satisfaction in leather interactions. I am composed of a grand mix of attitudes that bring forth strutting at times and heartfelt offering of myself on my knees at others. I believe that there will come a time again when I will live within a space of deep devotion to one who will command my service, and I am patient in the waiting for that day. In the meantime, I seek friendships and the searching out of possibilities.

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8/3/2008 5:50:26 PM
I am very happy about having the good fortune to be attending a couple of events coming up:  In August I'll be at The Floating World in NJ and in September I'll be at Beyond Vanilla 18 in Dallas.  Both look to be fantastic events with impressive workshop lineups and every kind of fun imaginable.  If you are going to either - see you there!

5/23/2008 8:31:49 PM
On occasion, later on in the evening and perchance after a glass of wine or two, I descend into the dark world of bdsm chat rooms. Usually the stay is quick and painless, and I in no way resurrect the pleasure I have taken in the past with such places. Tonight I ventured again down those old and musty paths. I popped in one or two without much interest and left quickly. On the third foray, I received a warm, pleasant, and sane greeting. I thought that I stood a chance of encountering some witty banter and friendly conversation and returned the greeting heartily.

Shortly thereafter I was addressed as "Sir" and playfully batted that aside, indicating that driftingsoul or boy j was just fine - and the latter easier to type! I was asked to change the way my name appeared in the room list so that folks would know for sure that I was "a submissive". Particularly, I was instructed to lowercase how my name appeared. Uggh and good christ. I said I didn't know how to accomplish this and asked if it was mandatory. No, not mandatory came the response but it would make it easier on everyone in the room if I did. Anyone else feel the grind of peer pressure here?

I wrote that I thought we had just established through old fashioned conversation that I was not a Sir. I received a response indicating that future folks entering the chat room would be unaware of my submissive status. Uuuuuuuuggghhh and grrrrrrrr. I came to the place for conversation, not to troll. Now my blood was up.




I countered that I understood her point but that I was also a biologically female person, and how, by god, were folks to know that? (I mean, of course, without asking if they were really that curious or clicking on the handy profile thing). Not missing a beat, I received the response that she had already taken care of that issue by placing a plus sign next to my name in the chat room list. Well thank freaking god she did THAT for me. So apparently there is a binary system in play here in the boundary-pushing world of BDSM. One is either male or female, submissive or dominant. And lets have all that boiled down information readily available in the chat room list, shall we?

I left, unable to stomach the nonsense.

The description of the place was that it was a friendly space to meet and chat. I could ask for no better - except when upon entry I am crotch-checked and made to blow into the sub-alizer. Okay, so it is there for those who want it and those who don't want to abide by their rules can leave - as I did. But really...WTF? Are we really this narrow-minded and closed?

End rant. Perhaps next time I'll create my OWN chat room. Come, share in conversation. That's it. I'll figure out what you're about as we talk, and will reveal the same to you about myself.

God, I feel ........... out of place.

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seductivealena
 
 Age: 27
 Brisbane, Australia