Drewmyre		drewmale		drewmpls

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Please allow me to introduce myself. My name is Drew. I have been in the lifestyle for over 20 years. At the moment I am not training anyone. I have never used this site before because I had always found people interested in chat rooms or sites that weren't specifically geared toward the lifestyle. But with the increase in peoples fascination with 50 Shade its harder and harder to find people who are in the lifestyle or are at least seriously curious. My philosophy about the lifestyle is that I am more of a Master/Mentor to my sub. Briefly and we can of course talk more in depth about it later on, is that I first build trust with my sub. Letting her know that she is safe in my care and that at all costs I would never let harm come to her. Once that trust is built and she gives me the gift of her will I begin the training. I like to find out what her limits and boundaries are and push her ever so slightly to expand her limits. And I also include pushing her limits both in and out of the bedroom. Having all been in the lifestyle or at least have an understanding of it I'm sure you know what limits I mean in the bedroom, so no need to go into details on that at the moment. But what are the limits outside of the bedroom I'm talking about? For example. The sub maybe very shy or soft spoken at work. I will be her mentor to help her over come that. Or she has issues body issues and doesn't wear anything sexy or revealing outside of the house. I will teach her that her body is beautiful and slowly push her into showing off all the wonderful attributes of her beauty not just to me but to the world. Limits out side of the bedroom can varies but if you are looking for someone to show you that you can be more then I maybe what you are looking for. Body type isn't important to me but your attitude is. For me its your mind that is the important part. Someone who is intelligent and adventurous is what counts. Age, race and experience is not important to me either. But if you are new to the lifestyle just be honest abAout it. The one thing I expect most from a sub is honesty. For trust is the foundation of this for me. If you can't honestly tell me who you are, what makes you tick or what needs you have then this kind of relationship can't work If you are interested in knowing more please say hello. I will answer anyone who takes thier time to say hello. Drew