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Jerry Seinfeld once said he had 3 rules on life- 1- Bust your ass, 2 - Pay attention, 3 - Fall in love. I agree with this 100%. 1 is self-explanitory - work hard; only good will come from it. 2 - Pay attention to everything going on around you. You can learn from everything going on, almost anyone you meet, and from so many experiences you can have. And 3 - you don't have to fall in love with someone, but just fall in love with life. If you are having a good coffee, really relish it. If you are at the gym, go HARD. Tell people close to you that you care about them. Enjoy life and love every second. A second wasted is one you can never get back again.
I LOVE feeling the control over someone when I play with them. Having said that, I would switch occasionally to the right person.
I think the thing that appeals to me the most about being Dominant is that you can get under someones skin. This is what I live for - I love watching controling someone mentally, although the physical side of control is also awesome. I love having an emotional connection and a 'meeting of minds' so to speak. Everything else then falls into place.
Into (but not limited to) whips, gags, collars, crops, spanking, orgasm denial, hair pulling, sensory restraint/deprevation, breath play, ass play, wax play, hot/cold play, but I dont want to limit myself if my submissive places their trust in my hands and wants me to push them if they desire, and I desire to use them that way...If you have any questions and want to know more? Please message me.
I have been told that my height, big hands, prominent brow, full lips, deep voice and persona are attractive (trust me, they are not my words but I will gladly accept the compliment!). There are some things in life that you can't take too seriously and I am very easy going and I laugh a lot. Having said that, I am headstrong about certain things but I will be fair and compromise if I can see I am not being fair. I keep fit and I live wanting to push myself in my work, my play and my Dominance of a submissive.
Any questions please ask!
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2012 has started....
She went back. I am heartbroken....
But, I have decided to make 2012 a year of learnings. I will be working towards getting myself back into a position where I am physically and mentally ready to take whatever this year gives me, and make something beautiful with it.
In the meantime, I will be on here occasionally. Apologies for my slow replies late last year - in between a break up, new boss at work and associated dramas, I did not get much time for Collarme. I hope to rectify that this year! |
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I don't why I might share this here - but my submissive is on the verge of returning to her husband.
I think the old adage of 'If you love someone, let them go...' applies here. If she is mine, she will come back.
Watch this space... |
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I don't know why I did this - maybe I was a bit tired/suspicious of submissive women who kept talking about stupid Dominants, or bad/insecure men on this site - But I decided to just do a search for Dominant males here in NSW. I almost burst out laughing. So many don't even have photos of themselves, or if they do they hide their faces, or they can't spell properly. What does that say about themselves? They are not sure of themselves, or are uneducated, stupid, or a combination of the above. I was speechless!
Don't get me wrong here - I know that when you submit to someone you do so because it is something you want to do. I'm not trying to attack others. But surely, you submit to someone that you respect. AND that they are worthy of that respect? Covering up your face is just laughable. No wonder many beautiful submissive women on Collarme appear overly cautious! |
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Just purchased an 8ft bull whip to use on my submissive. I hope she enjoys it as much as I will using it on her!!! |
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I don't know what anyone else thinks, but I LOVE the new Strokes album. |
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Just returned from a two week holiday (vacation) with my submissive up the Queensland coast. Many beautiful memories, and many opportunities were had to paint her body as the canvas that I saw it is, all different colour, harnessed for all the beautiful pain and pleasure that I wanted to take and give. Amazing is an understatement. |
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Who would have thought that a year ago I would be in a job that doesn't seem like a job? An increase in my package of 40% and a submissive to be very proud of... it is so incredible how it all goes sometimes... |
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So I waited to be with my love again... and she did come back to me. We spent the best part of a week together last week testing the waters and seeing what happened. It was really emotional and very deep for both of us and I'm very happy that we have finally taken the steps to become one.
Thank you to people who posts I read, and to those who answered questions I had. It did help. |
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I have decided I can't live without my love...I am going to wait it out until I am with her again.
My profile will remain here so I can discuss issues if I need to, but I want to make it clear I am NOT here to meet anyone - I have found my life partner and I will work towards being with her. I love how much we are similar. |
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Just saw my main profile photo - I look like a thug! Should have shaved!
Since that photo was taken I have lost some weight, so I don't know if I would look as brutish now. I'm not saying...I'm just saying! |
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Finally got a new job, so I can leave this one-horse town...only to move to a two-horse town! I'm moving a few hours closer to Sydney however, and I should be able to get down there when I have a spare weekend. I'm slowly getting excited about entering this new chapter of my life with work; it is moving closer to the idea of working to live, not living to work.
If only I could find a beautiful submissive lady to join me. Have her keep things at home the way she wants, and then be prepared for discipline at night. <Sigh> I can dream that one day it will happen... |
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I don't think there is anything sexier than reading a submissive womans blog about their thoughts- especially when they say something like 'I know how I feel about being submissive - and I enjoy it'.
There is something I find very very attractive about a woman being very confident and sure of their thoughts - knowing where your head is at and understanding their thoughts completely. That is the sort of woman I want to be with.
And there are so many of you on here!!! I love it and hope one day I will find someone who appreciates the fact that I appreciate them!!!! X-) |
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I'm sorry for people that have been messaging me the last few months - I happened to fall in love very very deeply with someone who I had known for the last 3 years. Unfortunately she was already married but made me believe that we were going to be happy for the rest of our lives.
It didn't happen. For the moment, she has decided that she needs to try to make her broken marriage work. Despite the fact that she has no spiritual connection with her husband and knows this, she is willing to work and work at something which she ultimately knows will fail due to no fault of her own or her husbands.
For this reason, I have decided to try and find what I had with her elsewhere.
The only down side to this is that I now have experienced something so incredible and so amazing, that I think it will be very difficult to find it again. I will struggle greatly to find the spiritual connection that I shared with her. But if I have to wait a long time, and go through more pain, I am willing to do it as long as I find that deep and NATURAL affinity I share with someone else, like I shared with her. |
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I've updated my profile to include basic stuff I should have put in ages ago. Basically - if you have an opinion about something and you can justify your position based on experience and knowledge of it, shouldn't that make you at least of 'average' skill level, if not advanced? I realized I had a few things like that I could say so I've changed them accordingly. Also, I've decided that I may not be such a good submissive - simply because I only am occasionaly in the right sub-space to accept pain - and unfortunately that's not often. |
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I've just noticed it's been ages since I wrote anything here so I guess I will write something now. I find it strange (well, not so much strange but probably misinterperted) that so many people will look at my profile but not contact me. I guess my look my throw a lot of people off. I have had people say to me that I just look like a biker, or that I have a scowl on my face sometimes and that will scare people off straight away.
I guess I take a lot of things in life seriously, D/s lifestyle/s included. I don't come across like an overbearing-power-happy idiot in real life so feel free to ask me something / tell me something if you want. Trust me I won't bite (at first) |
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I have now been doing a lot of reading, on Dominating and submission, and putting some ideas into practice. Although I have to say there is so much so can do in so much time. At the moment with so much still unexplored, if not properly handled or considered, it can become disheartening.
Of course, being a Dom this mindset should not persist past a passing thought and should definately not be made clear to your sub. It is your job to think about what is best for you and then with your subs input, should you believe it to be just, what is best for her.
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| Age: 21 |
| Houston,
Texas |
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