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Drdestro

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I believe in giving freedom through service. I want to give a worthy girl the chance to be free and unconfined by fear and being alone. I am far too possessive and jealous for a normal relationship to ever be possible. I've been playing this particular game for sometime, but lately I'm moving much more into TPE and M/s over D/s. I've spent too long trying to have relationships in a traditional sense and it has always been a miserable failure. I am NOT though an asshole or an abuser. I will always respect her and care for her regardless of the D/s role we are in. I recently have gone back to college as an undergraduate student. I am pursuing a degree in psychology, which suits me very well. I am as much into the mental aspect of BDSM as I am the sexual aspects, so this educational path makes a lot of sense. I love learning and always have, and I love evolving myself into something new and different; both in the world of kink, as well in vanilla world. I do have some sadistic tendencies. I tend to play rougher in sex then most people, and my primary kink would be consensual non-consent. Any girl considering a relationship with me should know what that means, and be OK with it in general. Every problem I have ever had in a relationship comes from me wanting more, or kinkier, sex then my woman. So this is a true caveat to someone who is not overly interested in sex, yet is still interested in getting to know me. I respect limits and safe words, but frigidity is something i really can not tolerate in a relationship. I do not expect sex on the first date, or other such nonsense, but when a relationship comes to that point I will not allow it to be used as currency or as emotional blackmail to control me. I also have a very strong inclinations towards a Daddy role. I love close contact, cuddling, hand holding, and also i crave intimacy. I may be a brute sexually at times, but i am as equally caring and loving. A successful relationship with me would require someone willing to accept both sides of my personality. I see a very spiritual dynamic to this type of lifestyle that goes beyond anything the vanilla world residents can understand. I am nominally a Buddhist and this is the path i have chosen to achieve enlightenment. I do not expect this combination to makes sense to most you, but those that get it, i would love to talk to you sometime. I am a optimistic nihilist at heart yet i try unceasingly to find who i need to complete myself. I am looking for someone who is willing to obsess over me, devote herself to me, and is willing to try to be what I want her to be. Its a tall order, but thats what i want. On the less serious side, i love to laugh and have fun. I am known as quite the comedian and i have a dark and shocking sense of humor. I love movies at home or in the theater, with a particular fondness for comedies and horror. I am willing to travel to meet YOU provided you are within 4 hours drive. I am active in the local BDSM scene and have been for some time.

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11/25/2012 5:05:22 PM

Honestly, this site is an utter disappointment of fakes, frauds, scammers, and online only fantasizers. 


11/9/2012 3:16:04 PM

I have been crazy busy with school last few weeks.  Sorry to anyone I haven't emailed in a awhile, but life gets hectic sometimes.  At any rate, I am back to looking now.


11/1/2012 5:57:20 AM

I am sorry if I do not have the time to engage in mindless online only fantasy talk.  I just don't, and I have no desire to even if i did.  I realize for the girls new to all this, that online talk can be very stimulating.  But you must understand that if you are truly seeking a Dom with experience, then online talk is more a chore to him then anything else.  I love discussing kinks, and the lifestyle in general, but I just am not interested in sending you dirty emails.


10/13/2012 12:30:00 PM

Off to the rocky horror picture show themed munch.  Solo this time.  Come on ladies stop being snobs and send me an email already. lol.


10/6/2012 7:45:47 PM

After being on this site for a significant amount of time, I am really becoming disillusioned with it.  The amount of scammers and online only role players is really getting on my nerves.  Is there any women out there serious about the lifestyle or serious about exploring it at least?


10/5/2012 5:32:19 AM

I love women.  I do not want to anything they aren't willing to allow.  Just want to put that up front, because I am be a bit more extreme then most (i.e. I fall on the RACK side of kink more then the SSC side), but I am not a raving lunatic that wants you locked up in my basement.  There seems to be a lot of newish girls on this site that don't seem to the know the difference between someone like me that wants push and explore you limits, and someone that wants to just do whatever it is he wants to do.


10/1/2012 4:39:54 AM

Free will is an illusion.  Let me show you something new and beautiful


9/22/2012 10:06:55 PM

Just as a word of warning.  If you email me first, or respond to one of my emails and HAVE NOT viewed my profile, I will not take you seriously.  In fact I will probably not answer  you at all.  I am not here for games, or to take up scammers time.  I have been in the scene for a very long time and its not hard to spot someone who is serious, and someone who is not.  So word of advice, if you are interested READ my profile.


8/10/2012 8:53:45 AM

Well it just did not work out with the girl i was considering.  These things happen and we are going to remain good friends.  But that doesn't change the fact that now i have to start all over again.  I can now see the appeal of Masters taking on multiple slaves or subs, because you never have to feel this annoying loneliness of well, being alone. lol.  If one girl left, there would still be another.  But i really am not looking for poly, just a one on one relationship with hopes for long term.


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sheabuttersecret
 
 Age: 29
 Denver, Colorado