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Down to earth couple seeking a slave to complete our home. ? Him: ? An experienced, ethical, and principled man with over 15 years of experience in corporal play, bondage, and the mental aspects of bdsm. Tends to lean towards daddy-dom tendencies. Enjoys drawing, animation, writing, music, and games. Allergic to drama, lying, and laziness. ? Her: My name is Lupa (for the sake of online). I am His devoted collared slave of 3 years in our 24/7 lifestyle. I am loyal, dedicated, fun loving, and a hard worker. I enjoy many things: drawing, writing, sewing, video games, crafty stuff, renaissance faires, knitting as well as a love/hate relationship with house work. I am a perfectionist and it causes me no end of stress when I don't meet up to my own demands. Master is helping me with this. I am also allergic to drama, lying, and laziness.
As is obvious from our profile, I'm very talkative. lol
? ? Pictures available upon request.

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9/17/2011 10:03:32 AM

It finally stopped raining on the East Coast. I think. I feel as if I could grow mushrooms on my skin. ewwwwwwwwwww lol I bet someone out there has a fetish that includes fungus. *giggles*

I finally get to start working again. WOOT! No more endless hours of leisure. I should be mourning this but quite frankly, I was about to lose my mind. I've worked since I was 15 and NOT working was only fun for the first couple months.

It's nice to look forward to something again that is outside the home. I also get to go to work in scrubs so I don't even have to buy dress up clothes that require special care! lol woohoo for going to work in pj's.

Halloween (my absolute FAV holiday) is coming soon. Discussing with master about having our party. I think I want to dress up again this year. Been watching Michelle Phan on YouTube and all her really cool make-up tutorials. Love this chick! I think I like the gothic lolit@ doll and the sexy vampire look. I HAVE to have FX contacts. LOL I need a place to buy those. Anyone ever bought anything like that before?

Okay, off to play on the net while master races on our new fav video game. Have a good'in y'all!

 


5/17/2011 6:25:39 AM

It's hard to find a person to talk to where you don't have to worry about them "finding out" about your kinks and fetishes. I like talking to folks, it's why I went in the chat room here on collarme, I like to joke and just talk about normal things.

Is it so strange that a slave sends out emails to other slave/subs and say, "Hey.. we seem to have a lot in common. This isn't an attempt to get your to join our home because I see you aren't interested in that. I love.. blah blah blah blah blah too. Where to you go to ren faires, what do you like to sew and what type of camping do you like to do?" lol

I promise .. when I send emails like that.. I'm being truthful about not trying to passive aggressively get you to suddenly think poly is for you and bisexuality is truly what you are..you silly heterosexual. 

have a nice day guys.. let's hope it stops raining on the East Coast..*mutter*


3/18/2011 8:33:07 AM

I've been spending time in chat here on C.M. "Meeting" nice folks there and I enjoy telling Master all about it at night. "Are they treating you well?" he asks me. "Yes Master. Everyone is very nice and no one disrespects me." Then he questions me, "Are you being respectful?" I have to think a bit more on that before I answer, "I believe I am Master. No one has complained about me and I haven't had to apologize to make anything better."

I love that he thinks about how I am treated or how I represent him with a thing as trivial as a chat room. I suppose it is an extension of who he is, he is the same no matter if it is online or in person or on a phone.

I'm so damn lucky. *smiles*

UPDATE (sept 2011):

Ya know, I stopped going into the chat room not long after this post. Believe it or not I talked on topic about safety in play and playing with new folks. I used my own life experience in this. Unfortunately it was a BAD experience. I never mentioned any names or state/locations or any other identifying information. I only mentioned how I had made a poor choice and the physical damage that was a result of that choice. I typed/talked about the "master" in so far as what he did that caused the damage and other things now that, looking back, were flags I should have paid attention to (but didn't).

SURPRISE

I got attacked (verbally of course lol) by a dom...who took exception to me "bad mouthing" someone on this site. What a pain.. ugh. Unfortunately at the time I got really upset (surprised me because usually I keep in perspective the amount of "give ah crap" I allow myself to feel about folks). I also had another sub/slave take exception to me talking about "bad experiences." That surprised the crap out of me. "I don't like hearing about bad stuff," she says in the room. If I hadn't been so upset over the verbal attacks that had turned distinctly personal in nature I would have had the clarity of mind to respond to her opinion.

Why the hell, as a new (and totally online as yet) sub/slave wouldn't you want to know the bad that CAN happen. The injuries that can result from certain bondage when done WRONG? Why wouldn't you want to take into account the truth about this lifestyle?

 

Truth:

The majority of folks on/in the lifestyle present themselves as people full of experience, maturity and sanity (LOL).

Further Truth:

The majority of the above folks are either A. Lying outright or B. think more highly of their skills, maturity and sanity than they should.

 

It's up to us (all of us) to take a real hard look at ourselves and each other and evaluate what we think the level of those 3 things actually are and proceed through our and others lives with that truth before us. PREACHY PREACHY yea yea.. I know. Probably a run on sentence .. or two... in this little sermon as well.

 

I'm not uber experienced. There are areas in my mind that struggle with being a slave. I know it's what I am but I'm still trying to make it second nature. I WANT it to happen when I'm not thinking about it. I want my FIRST choice to be the choice that I think a slave should make. Work in progress. My master is awesome but he's not perfect and he'll be the first to tell you that. But compare him to ... everyone I've ever met in person and I'll choose him and his level of maturity, skill and sanity and place it at the top of the pile.

 

meh... I won't go on. lol If you've read this entire thing.. wow.. just.. wow. lol If you want to talk further, feel free to send a message. If you're rude though.. I won't respond. Differing opinions do NOT mean you're rude. lol

 

Have a good'in y'all


3/13/2011 8:05:03 AM

lupa here...

I went through the skills and stuff, marking things off. I wish they had an option, for couple accounts, so you could specify who likes what. I guess, with it being the way it is, it simply means SOMEONE in the our family likes this or that. I suppose it could be a way to initiate conversations.

HEY, I just gave people a way to start that difficult first email. Yes yes...you're welcome. I'm just naturally a giving and helping person.

hehe


3/10/2011 1:58:47 PM

Watching the deer in the side yard as I finish up my daily chores. It's rainy and so gray out and I was sorta depressed over the fact that we had no sun. Then I see the does nibbling on the grass and everything is sorta serene for a moment. Very nice.

While I sit here, I think about BDSM and what part it's playing in my life. The fact that we want to enlarge our family to include another slave. All the difficulties living like that will cause for the mundane part of our lives and yet...it's still such a desire to be 3 instead of 2.

Entering a new relationship is so intimidating, all the unknowns that you can't control and can't foresee. Master and I met here, on Collarme. Can lightening strike twice in one place?


3/9/2011 8:28:38 AM

Posted how Master and I met on the Message Board under Positive Experiences. So much bad happens when you're trying to find the one that fits you, so I thought it would be nice to add our good outcome with the others.

I received my corset last night! Master had it made custom for me and it's LOVELY. I've had two corsets before that I bought myself before I met Master. They were steel boned as this one is but the quality difference is incredible. It's so beautiful but that's only secondary to the detail of stitching and construction that makes it a functional as well as ascetically pleasing piece of clothing.

I"m so happy. *smiles*


3/4/2011 7:26:40 AM

This is lupa. I'm trying to learn Italian with Rosetta Stone. Master got it for me because I've always wanted to learn. I thought grammar in English was bad. Trying to figure out grammar in Italian is going to be the death of me. lol


3/3/2011 9:36:18 AM

This is lupa, the slave of DrawingTheLine's couple account.

 

I just wanted to clarify for anyone coming to the profile because of an email you were sent. If the email was from me then I announced right in the beginning who I was. If you didn't see that, then it was from Master.

 

thanx


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 Age: 27
 Monrovia, Liberia, Liberia