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drasticaxi


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	Ouch is NOT a safe word, and neither is that fucking hurts Hi, I am a 55 year old Dominant Englishman living in Belgium. I regularly travel to the UK both for work and for pleasure, and have a nice apartment in Chicago, which I visit every few months or so. I am an average hard working guy, and have been in the lifestyle for far longer than I care to remember. I am a naturally dominant character in and out of BDSM, and have many interests in regular life, some merge into the BDSM realm. I am seeking someone who has other interests apart from being a babygirl, sub or slave. I am 510 (178 cm) tall and weigh about 14 stones (90 kg), I have brown hair, brown eyes and a great smile (or so I am told). I am average build and average looks.My ideal is someone with much more than one facet to their personality. I really do want the whole package... an interesting character, the desire to serve, love, romance the Ds dynamic, coupled with play as and when it suits. Anything short of this is too self limiting - for what I seek. Also, I have a remarkably Sadistic side which loves to be released as and when needed. Be warned though it can be amazingly inventive and intense. I am looking for an honest, trustworthy, sane-ish submissive for friendship and play initially and to see where things lead, hopefully to a long-term relationship. I would like to take things slowly to start with, and not to blindly jump into anything meaningless. I will answer any and all messages, even to say not interested, and expect the same.

11/21/2017 2:51:51 AM

Dominance..

Dominance is being there for her.
Dominance is working through her meltdowns.
Dominance is accepting her, especially when she won’t accept herself.
Dominance is telling her no.
Dominance is quieting her demons.
Dominance is being her bastion of strength.
Dominance is encouraging her.
Dominance is comforting her.
Dominance is guiding her.
Dominance is building her.

4/25/2017 4:12:16 AM

When I was a child, my parents taught to always reply to birthday cards, letter, etc. I find it so frustrating that it seems that I was the only one.

It is simple manners to acknowledge a message, whether to take things further or to say 'No thanks'

Fucking younger generation, no wonder the world is falling apart.

1/26/2016 2:48:42 AM

Hmmmmm, so many time wasters on this site... Why, if someone wishes to stop talking to you, do they simply not say so ??

It is so damned frustrating....

Fuck 'em all.

1/10/2016 11:27:54 PM

R.I.P - David Bowie, you were a legend