*** Update 6/7/2009
To put it bluntly, I am very counter-culture. I Hate stupid things like "American Idol" and what currently passes for "News" in America. Celebrity bullshit and jerking off your corporate "masters" on the air are NOT news.
I think most American's are asleep and/or among the living dead. Walking around without a purpose in a dull 9-5 life, waiting until the government says it is ok to die.
I do not lead a "normal" lifestyle. I am not looking for a girl who wants to live a "normal" lifestyle. I am not looking for friends who want to live a "normal" lifestyle.
I own my own house and business so make my own hours. This means that for the most part I can do what ever I would like whenever I want with a few exceptions during the M-TH week.
The weekends you will find me playing with people of like mind that gather around the Goth / Industrial / Fetish / BDSM community. Here you will usually find me in Black and / or wearing vinyl or a kilt.
That being said I am a Dominant.
I am currently looking for a switch or a special submissive. Either way you need to be able to submit to a Male and enjoy Domming a female.
At the moment I am dating a cute little girl who makes a great "third" in a relationship as she would want equal attention from the Male & Female.
So my ideal situation would be to find a girl as mentioned above, who wants to be my equal in a D/s relationship and share the pure joy and "brattiness" of a little princess who is equally happy with having both a male & female in charge.
Please note that I am looking for a girl that is in good physical shape and within the appropriate age range of early 20s to mid 30s.
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My Profile
*** A Sacred Bond ***
My submissive is a reflection of Me and I of her. She is the girl who holds my heart. It is hers to protect and love as I will do to her.
For this, she will always feel me by her side. My hand, My presence, My will, My being, My bond. It will always be with her. To guide her. To love her. Even when we are apart.
she will always know I am watching over her and protecting her.
She is my muse, my inspiration, my light, my life.
Together we become intertwined - incomplete when we are apart, complete when we are together. A union that will hold us closer than anything physical could.
A Sacred Bond.
My collar that I place upon my girls neck is the symbol of this sacred bond... a bond that will never break as long as the collar is worn.
It is a spiritual circle, a focus, that allows me to reach inside and touch her soul. It allows me to move and manipulate her energy, to open her up and expose her to the light without ever needing to lay a hand upon her.
All of this and much more lie within this simple symbol of love, obedience, honor and trust.
With this Pledge and this Collar W/we become O/one.
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I find the D/s relationship can be very spiritual and deep. Way beyond sex, way beyond control, way beyond pleasure and pain.
My name is Drake.
Who am I?
I am deeply spiritual but not religious. I do not believe in god, but I believe in the divine.
I am an artist, a poet and there are times when I feel that I am just a conduit for something greater than myself.
I am addicted to passion, desire, love, lust and anything that makes me feel like a privative beast.
I am primal, tribal and a modern privative. I am pierced and have tattoos.
I am a teacher, a philosopher and a student every day. I love talking, listening, arguing and debating. I love environments and people that foster these situations.
Recently I made the decision to start looking for a submissive again. While ultimately I would like to find a long term relationship, I would like to start by having fun and enjoying what situations come along the way.
I am very loving and romantic to my partners in my life. Dedicated to those I hold close. Protective and dedicated.
I am a Dominant.
I tend to gravitate towards Daddy Dom with the right girl. While it is not necessary it is always a nice bonus. Nothing melts me faster than "Yes, Daddy" said from a girl who is really at that place and getting to punish a girl who is really there is amazing.
I am very much into energy work, manipulation and spirituality. I have found girls that are receptive to energy manipulation tend to make amazing submissives. The ability to open yourself up to someone, let them reach inside you and move your energy around is not something everyone can do.
My partner must be mentally and physically in good shape. This means you are not overweight and can handle being in a D/s relationship. She must be willing to explore and push boundaries, but also understanding that I will not push her to far or too fast. She needs to not worry about time frames and able to enjoy things as they are at that time. When I feel we are ready to move on to something else, the time will present itself and I will move us there.
When training I spend a lot of time dealing with psychology, how our interactions effect you and figuring out limits and how able you are to push past them.
I am very respectful and very complex. I can guarantee one thing and that is it will be a unique experience.
