Hello - I am new to the site and to the scene in general, so if it seems im a bit lost you'll know why. This is me second name and i have changed my log to suit. I am interested in the D/s scene, have been for a while but only now through personal change can i persue my interests. Yes i am still in a marriage, or should i say household, but thats why i have joined this site to allow me to investigate and follow my interest since there is no chance of my doing so in my current arrangement. For some of you this may sound strange and even cruel, but as the union goes into its last throes, this is my chance to find the one to spend the rest of my time here on this mortal coil. If i dont try this now i will regret it for the rest of my life. I am looking for a sub, im definately a dom, of any age, since age nor looks matter to me, after all im no adonis or whipper snapper (excuse the pun) myself. Yes i have baggage - who doesnt? - but for now im looking to make friends, find information and guidance, watch and learn. I am a professional worker, financially sound and willing within limits to travel. I am discreet - I have to be due to my work - and am a great listener. Experience counts, but in my head im still 21, and full of needs that i hope someone can fulfill.