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I'm a "glass is half full" kind of guy. Positive, capable, reliable, considerate and I have a reasonable sense of humour.
I try to keep fit in as many ways as possible without having to go to a gym.
Music is important to me, it has the power to lift my spirits, my taste is eclectic but I’m often found listening to guitar based rock (or as one friend put it –“Dad rock”). I have been threatening to learn to play a musical instrument for the last few years, I always seem to think “I will start next month”.
I am also a bondage loving, masochist who is submissive to the right partner.
After briefly experimenting with BDSM in my early twenties, I conformed to the normal expectations of society and tried to dismiss my submissive desires. This led to a vanilla marriage that was wrong for me (and my ex wife). After the end of my marriage, and following a period of honest self-reflection, I came to understand and accept my submissive nature.
During recent years I have dated in the vanilla world, I was sure that if I found an open minded lady, I would be able to encourage her to learn about the delights of kinky play. This approach has been a resounding failure, so now I indulge my fetishes by playing within the fetish community of North Wales and the North West of England.
My life is good, I enjoy it, I am happy and I just happen to be single. I have good friends (both vanilla and kinky), a great family and nice work-life balance. However, if there is a dominant and sadistic lady out there who is still reading this, and feels like we might be a good fit together, that would be the final piece of the puzzle for me.
Ideally, I am seeking a dominant lady, who also has a sadistic side, for a long term female led relationship (FLR). In the first instance, we would just get to know each other to see if there is any chemistry, common interests (both vanilla and kinky stuff!), sense of humour , etc. Then perhaps we could investigate further if our respective dominance and submission ideals are compatible.
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