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Drager

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darlingnikki32
CynthiaSSS
Here is to a life less ordinary and taking the paths less traveled! Anyone want company on the journey? I am interested in understanding and possibly exploring all of the different aspects of BDSM. I am open to talking about anything in the scene, but just because we discuss something does not mean we have try it. I am looking for people who are both more and less experienced than myself. I am open and willing to learn from both tops and bottoms. I want to learn from and with people greater and lesser experience levels than myself. Having people with a lot of experience is good, it will allow me to get up to speed and learn faster. On the flip side having someone with less experience forces you to examine what you are doing and why, this allows you to build a better understanding of yourself. Because of these reasons I want to surround myself and make friends with the greatest range of people involved in the lifestyle as possible. I spent some time exploring BDSM when I was younger, at that time I did not even know there was such a thing as BDSM and that there was a community of people who were involved in it. We played with what seemed fun and happened to intrigue us. I loved having control of her and she thrived on being told what to do. Our activities included forced exposure, being restrained and mild to medium pain. I forced her to go to adult theaters and to move beyond her comfort zone, in this case I allowed no one to approach or touch her. She was mine and that made me responsible for watching over and protecting her. It also gave me the right to use her as I wanted for my pleasure. Life took me away from BDSM for quite a while, and a while ago I came back to it. I started to learn what I could about BDSM. Well after years away and then learning from the periphery I have decided the time is right to get back into BDSM. Now I am looking to start meeting people who are involved in BDSM, and hopefully meet some people I can actively share this with. I am hoping to find people with whom I can establish long-term friendships, and d/s, m/s and other BDSM related relationships. I love my wife. I am not looking to replace her. We are also looking to establish friendships that can carry beyond BDSM play. It would be nice to have friends with whom we be open and can share this. People with whom you can have a Saturday cook out and be open about our interests and the nature of our relationships. I have body decorations and art. I have piercings, ears and nipples. I have two Tattoos, I have a gold dragon on my left and a white tiger on my right. I am looking for one of two types of situations. The first is a long-term relationship where we will take the time to learn and grow together. We will work towards your becoming my submissive, slave, bottom or pet. The second is with someone who is looking to get together once in a while to scratch some mutual itches that are not getting scratched. That being said it would also be nice for you to be a friend or acquaintance to my wife and myself whether we are playing or not. Honesty, intelligence and opinions are appreciated and desired. I prefer a submissive I can have a conversation with, at least once in a while. This should give us a comfortable place to begin our explorations from. This will take a little time and communications. You should be ready to express your desires or your lack of understanding. I need to learn about you as you are learning to trust me. I believe in both a strong hand as well as a sensuous touch. They are both needed and have their times. Just as punishments and rewards are need to mold desired behaviors. My long-term goal is I want to be able to guide someone through love and respect, not though fear. I am not an expert with a lot of experience. But I am most willing to learn and I will accept guidance from anyone. Top or bottom, young or old makes no difference to me as long as you are willing to discus your ideas and experiences with me. I am looking for a female slave, submissive, pet or bottom who is interested in learning, exploring and enjoying what this lifestyle has to offer. Boundaries will be negotiated and renegotiated as we learn more about each other and ourselves. Hard limits will be discussed but adhered to. Soft limits will be occasionally tested and if comfortable then they will be carefully stretched as we see about expanding your capabilities. Here are some ideas of how things can go. Are you a pleasure slut, do you desire to be treated as my personal slut. You will be made to wear sexy and reveling clothes as we walk around for most of the day. We will find quiet corners where my hands and mouth will molest you for my pleasure. Once home off comes any clothing and you will be bent over a chair as I take my pleasure from your body. If you are good maybe I will tease you through several orgasms first. If you have been a little naughty I may tease you for quite a while before allowing you your release after I have had mine. If you have been very bad I will take my pleasure and leave you hanging in frustration till you have seen and acknowledged the error of your ways. Are you a pain slut, do you crave harsh treatment and discipline. If you transgress the rules you will find yourself standing upright and still, hands clasped behind your head, elbows pulled back and your tits thrust out for punishment. Depending on what you have done or not done, mild infractions might receive a hard pinch and twist of your nipples or a mild to moderate slapping of your tits. A major infraction may find me slapping your tit so hard the other tit hurts from the impact. Remember that is only one part of your body. Imagine the spanking or flogging I can deliver to your ass, upper and inner thighs and the juncture where they meet. Then again I may find myself playing like this just for the enjoyment of the play. Do you want to feel like an object, just a set of holes for bringing pleasure and receiving men?s cum? Are you looking to be humiliated and made to feel small and worthless? Are you a closet exhibitionist wanting to be made to exhibit your body? Do you crave not being in control of your own body and sexuality? Do you want to just be told what to do? Or maybe for you it is some combination of all of these. Oh the ways we can play! Intrigued? Interested? Just want to talk? Send a message introducing yourself. (WARNING: This profile and pictures are copyrighted and may not be used without the express permission of the owner. 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lura
 
 Age: 20
 California, Massachusetts