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About Me:
- I'm bi, real, poly, and enjoy controlling and dominating.
- I'm new to the public scene, but have been involved privately in BDSM as a dom and a sadist, on and off, for about 30 years. I've recently joined Tucson's local club to start to get involved in the community. I'd probably be best described as a mix of geek, crazy, dominant, sadist, daddy, outdoor type, couch potato (like Netflix, Redbox, and Amazon Prime), introvert (unless angry) and true friend. I'm honest, open, and not afraid of trying new things (as a dom or master). I'm educated (physics, math, and business), in reasonable shape (5'9" and 180#s), more intelligent than a rock, financially stable, safe, sane, disease free, single and free to do what I want and travel.
- I'm quite approachable if you just want to talk or ask about something. I also enjoy moderate hiking and one to two hour road bicycle riding if you're into either (just as a friend is fine). Thrift stores and yard sales are fun too as are Hands of Training nights at Desert Dominion (local BDSM club) to learn new things.
- I enjoy medium to heavy impact play. I like using my bare or leather gloved hands, leather belts, whips, wooden paddles, heavy floggers, crops, canes, Estim, nipple clamps, violet wand, vibrators, and large toys (with and without restraints). Estim and violet wand allows me to do medium to heavy play without leaving any marks.
- I enjoy orgasm play using Estim on breasts to increase the orgasm threshold along with internal electrodes and a Hitachi Magic Wand to further increase orgasm strength. Sometimes I use dildos with this play to provide additional sensation.
- I'm very open-minded to new things as long as they don't violate my hard limits and they don't require me to sub. My hard limits are anything to do with minors, animals, scat, poppers, the carotid arteries, any type of drugs (though I don't mind if you are 420 friendly), permanent markings, or playing with someone who is drunk, incapacitated or otherwise incapable of making an informed decision.
For Local Play With Local Masochists, Subs, Slaves or Bottoms:
- Can play leaving no marks or bruises, if so desired.
- Play can be with or without sex.
- Prefer to meet at Desert Dominion for first play session.
- I respect all negotiated limits (although I admit I do enjoy testing them on occasion) and always abide by safe words or signals (if talking isn't feasible)
- I presently do not do breath control, cutting, or needle play due to lack of experience. However, I'm always willing to learn new things.
- Communication between us is important to any type of play. We both need to understand and agree to the scene, expectations, limits, safe words and signals, and aftercare needs (short and long term).
- Prior to setting up a play time; we'll need to communicate a bit, voice verify and then preferably meet in public for coffee, cokes, lunch, dinner, or at Desert Dominion during a social or play party. If we are comfortable with each other, we could proceed from there to more interesting things and private play.
For a M/s Long Term Relationship:
- Please be intelligent, have integrity, be over 50 with a slim, to curvy type body and enjoy moderate to heavy impact play. Also it would be nice if you were in good enough shape to do moderate hiking or bicycle riding in the hills.
- You must be capable of keeping private things private, being 'completely' honest, and being open.
- Be someone who likes to be touched, enjoys communicating during the day (phone, texts, in person), and enjoys hugging/cuddling. Any race or nationality works for me.
- You'll need to have good relationship skills (as mine are limited), LTR experience, and the understanding, willingness, ability and desire to be a full time slave or sub. (Of course, discretion in front of vanilla, etc.)
- Swinging, threesome, or moresome experience would be a plus, as I enjoy sharing and watching. Though my fetish list is extensive, most are negotiable.
- As with any other LTR, this will happen over months to years, not days to weeks.
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