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cupidringmybelle
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I'm mostly interested in the psychological dynamics of D/s, rather than pain for pain's sake. I enjoy playing with roles and power. I see D/s as an exciting and powerful way to explore my own desires and feelings, as well as those of the people I become close to. I'm not interested in meeting fake tops who are just trying to make themselves feel like they are in control of something in their lives.
I'm looking for anyone in the area I can talk and share ideas with, and for women to potentially play with. As a sub, I enjoy the satisfaction of serving a woman who I can respect and admire, and the feeling of giving up my own comforts and status just for the sake of her pleasure. Even as a dom, I often feel I derive my pleasure mostly from playing a role that I know is exciting for my sub (not to say that I don't enjoy the power of topping ;) . Acting is fun and I enjoy creative roles. I am very attracted to somewhat plump/curvy women.
Now that I've hopefully captured your attention...the mundane details: My other interests include going to school for psychology, slowly improving my hotrod, and collecting unusual music and films. I have a good body and good slim muscle tone, but it's worth mentioning that I have cerebral palsy, and therefore walk with a limp. I'm good with computers, but hate them usually. I like to play with photo-editing and music creation.
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I'm reaching the controversial and offensive conclusion that women simply cannot truly respect and love submissive men, and anyway I have too much wrath at this point to submit to anyone. In the past year or so, I have been hurt by immature women who do not know what they want (both sub and domme). I have also topped women who do know what they want, and have discovered new things about my love for hair-pulling, face-slapping, and use of degrading language. I also feel my own negative experiences give me a strong determination to keep communication open and honest, so that I don't cause true emotional pain to others. At this point I am mostly open to meeting submissives who can accept the fact that I have a sweet/shy side, and who won't assume that it means I'm a pussy (I assure you that if you treat me like one, I will smack the shit out of you). I'm also still open to meeting good Tops who are prepared to deal with my hesitation.
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I'm not looking for insecure or abusive 'Domme's' who
need a stooge to prop up their ego, or who are only comfortable topping
men they don't respect. Strong women can express themselves and be
confident with those whose opinions they truly value, not just with
expendable playthings. Taking advantage (financially or otherwise) of people who respect you and want to share themselves with you, is abuse, is not sexy, is not mature, and is not acceptable.
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| Age: 38 |
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