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This is an update to my previous profile.


I am a realist, and reality is that fantasy and imagination can only take you so far. Many have fantasies they wish to live out, like being abducted, or tied up, and many others. At the end of the day, though, the fantasy ends and you have to face the fact that reality and every day life awaits your return. But can you handle it? Is every day life getting heavy, and youre losing focus and resolve to continue onward? Every morning you wake up and seek a purpose but find out yet again how shallow and cold the society out there is? Yeah, your fantasy ends and you have to return. You realize how alone you really are.

Im not going to bullshit you and feed off of your desire for pure fantasy. There IS a life after the fact, a life in a society that weighs heavily on your heart. You know what I am speaking of and if this message touches you, then perhaps you are what I am looking for.

I am someone who isnt there just for fantasy, nor a session.

If you read through my profile, and my journal, you will get some insight to me. I am real, I have a sound mind, I am strict but compassionate, and do what is necessary for those who are involved in my life. I never rush something, and am always open to a friendly chat without any strings attached.

I look forward to hearing from you, your life, and what brought you to me.

-DrL

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3/29/2017 12:50:17 PM
This is a post for all Slaves/Subs, and those of us who are real masters and Doms. Those, who really want to find a Master/Dom.

It has come to my attention that many subs and slaves are overwhelmed by mails of potential suitors.

But are they really suitors? After breaking through some very high defenses from some subs/slaves, I have come to realize a few things, and wanted to express them here.

Most of the people writing subs and slaves are "fakes." They can not hold a conversation, they give direct commands, they have no idea about the actual dynamic that a D/S (etc) have, and the phrase "trust is earned, not given" does not exist in their minds, as they cannot comprehend the simple fact that no sub/slave will simply submit just because you want them to.

If they know you, know what you can offer them, from strength, to stability, from structure, to guidance, then they will find it in their hearts to truly see a person as a Dom and master. Those who really want to find someone will only neglect the fakes. They have better things to do. Like finding those of us, who are real. And they will do so, with or without Collarspace.

While the futile attempts of these fakes actually humor me, I pity the subs and slaves who are their victims. They did not sign up here for the fake's amusement. They came here for a reason, and they are not interested in fakes.

I, too, have found myself to receive whiplash from a secondary injury that follows this phenomenon: Real people, real subs/slaves that I try to talk to, also assume me to be one of those fake "suitors." Thankfully, a few have seen in my messages that I may be very clinical, yet genuine, and for them (as well as all the others who have built their walls and do not let others penetrate them) I write this entry.

I understand your plight. I understand your overwhelming experience, your frustrations, your desperation. You are not alone, as us true masters and doms also suffer the consequences from the actions of these fakes.

To any new Slave or Sub reading this entry, I wish to emphasize to use your head, read between the lines, read the profiles carefully of those who write you. Don't just return a message, check out the writer and see if it really is worth your effort. You don't have to know what you want. Nobody who is new knows that. But figure out what you don't want. Keep that in mind with people who write you.

And above all else, I wish you patience and good luck as you weed through your messages. I, too, hope that I will find what my sub and I are looking for too.

Sincerely,

DrL


2/21/2017 7:46:32 AM
It seems many have lost a sense of propriety in today's age, however there are those very few and far between who are genuine and have a sense of courtesy. Beyond that, they even can bring forth a polite conversation. Those who take the time, make the effort, and bring patience will be smiled upon not only here but also in life.

2/14/2017 8:27:25 AM
For those of you who observe the holidays: Happy Valentine's Day. / Für diejenigen die Feiertage schätzen: Fröhlichen Valentinestag.

2/6/2017 5:35:29 PM
As I look over the final itinerary for the next few months, I anticipate good times in Washington, Missouri, Iowa, New York, and Germany. What is truly strange, however, is to be a representative for various institutions on a national and global scale, only to find that it is merely the mask that society accepts. They want the eloquent, educated and proper person. The mask only comes off in private; where I can finally be who I am. While I don't mind a public image, the reality that nobody knows, is far different. Many on this website understand this duality we live with. Kudos to those who can endure this duality daily. 

1/3/2017 2:59:37 AM

Guten Rutsch, und Frohes Neues Jahr. / Happy New Year 2017!
A new year to build upon. 

12/24/2016 5:32:38 PM
Frohe Weihnachten / Merry Christmas

I realize that no matter your origin, your beliefs, or your orientation: everyone on here seeks something. As I go about and conclude another night, I see how many are on here seeking that which gives them bliss and happiness. To those, I wish best of luck. Cheers. 

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bri1981
 
 Age: 29
 Lowell, Massachusetts