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This is a unique opportunity for anyone who has a desire to live in the alternative lifestyle, or is seriously thinking about it.!!
You can become part of My FamilyGroup living in the alternative lifestyle, with others who are also highly motivated and adventurous.
It is a simple three phase process.
Phase I Become a prospect submissiveslave. Get acquainted, with the goal of determining mutual suitability and compatibility. The initial training... How well do you learn and adapt. Determine if you have the proper personality characteristics. Determine if you have the proper reasons and motivations to live in the alternative lifestyle. Become familiar with Rules and Protocols, and practice their use. All online andor phone.
Phase II Acceptance as a probationary submissiveslave member of the Family. Receive a collar. Continued training and development. Sign a contract specifying your status and our relationship in legal terms. Relocation will be necessary at some time during this phase. That will be negotiated considering all factors.
Phase III Become an accepted lifetime Family member, with a ceremony receiving a slave ring, a small tattoo signifying your status in the Family and changing your last name to the Family last name.
There is a fast track possibility, for those that must move from their current location quickly because of some urgent situation, for any reason. I never want to see a submissiveslave on the street, for any reason. Contact me for details..!! You can complete Phase I in 30 days..!!
The Family is an integrated unit, living together and mutually supportive in all that we do. Our purpose is to enjoy life to the fullest, taking advantage of living in the best of the alternative lifestyle, while taking advantage of the best offerings of the vanilla world.
This is the very best of the poly fidelity life style..!! In the Family, there are opportunities for a wide variety of lifestyle activities, such as multiple partners, all sorts of scenes and role play. Family members are encouraged to play together. This avoids the difficult task of finding suitable and reliable people for such activities outside the Family, while also avoiding potential problems with STDs. Outside guests may be welcomed from time to time.
The living environment is totally erotic within our closed domain and for all lifestyle activities.As the Master and Family Leader... I am a Teacher, Instructor, Coach, Guide and Mentor. Loyalty is given and expected in return.
I am well educated, highly intelligent, with wide interests, and a great sense of humor, and many years in the alternative lifestyle.I do not switch under any circumstances. All submissives are respected, wanted, cared for, protected, kept safe, and appreciated at all times. No one is ever permanently harmed, physically, emotionally, psychologically, sexually or socially.Rules, Rituals and Protocols, provide both structure and control, in a strict, firm, fair and consistent manner, which is essential for a stable drama free Family environment. A profession, career, work, or other non-lifestyle talents and activities are encouraged and supported in every way. Balance in life is important.Education and training are a high priority. Not only training and education in all aspects of the alternative lifestyle, but in all fields, including possible college or university studies leading to a recognized degree. I am interested in the development of every Family member to their fullest potential.Excellent communications are extremely important. Your mental limits will be tested, as well as all other limits. Open and honest communications are required.Primary fetishes are 247365 (TPE) Masterslave Dominancesubmission Control Training Fetish attire (for submissives) Role Play. An extensive listing of activities enjoyed, is available and is considered secondary and in support of the primary fetishes. I have engaged in all these activities.
The specific needs of each submissive are analyzed and met, at the appropriate level. A submissive may simply desire to be obedient, to serve, to please and to be loyal. Extreme play, rough plat and hard BDSM is also acceptable. The need for pain is not a requirement, but such needs will be totally satisfied, along with all your other needs and fetishes.All hard limits are respected, including sexual orientation. No pressure is ever applied to change these hard limits, but may be changed with your consent (This is a necessary legal consideration.).For anyone who feels a strong desire to live in the alternative lifestyle, and who can be as dedicated and committed to it as I am for the long term, if not a lifetime, this is a unique opportunity.
My Ideal Person
An ideal person to join our alternative lifestyle Family will have the following personal characteristics 1.) Intelligence 2.) Openness 3.) A sense of adventure 4.) Mental strength 5.) Honesty 6.) Patience 7.) Dedication 8.) Commitment 9.) Self control 10.) Discipline 11.) Sincerity 12.) Resolve.They will have the following reasons and motivations to join our alternative lifestyle Family 1.) A desire for sexual excitement 2.) A desire for freedom from day-to-day cares and responsibilities 3.) A desire to please your Master 4.) A desire to serve your Master 5.) A desire to be obedient to your Master 6.) A desire to be loyal to your Master. All these must be strongly held reasons and motivations. These reasons and motivations must be an inner passion.If you do not have these personal characteristics and these reasons and motivations to be in the alternative lifestyle. Or if the inexperienced or unskilled dominant(s) that you could possibly choose, do not have an understanding of them, youll never be in a successful relationship.Your brain is the biggest sex organ in your body and any other body parts involved are merely inputoutput devices. A 247365 (TPE) relationship is primarily mental. It is not simply sexual or fetish fantasy activity ongoing 247.
A strong bond must develop with your Master and those in the Family, based on trust, knowledge of each other, tolerance, and confidence in each other. And this bond is essential for any alternative lifestyle relationship to be successful and truly rewarding. Such a bond is purely mental, having nothing to do with physical or superficial characteristics. Further, it does take time for this bond to develop. Its not the Cosmo instant romantic and fantasy type of relationship.You should be looking for an experienced mature Master with wisdom, common sense, extensive worldly knowledge, natural leadership ability and the ability to manage their own affairs and the affairs of others in a totally responsible manner. As well as being mentally very well adjusted, with the skills to analyze the needs of others and respond to those needs effectively and fairly. Any dominant that cant control themselves, will ruin your life.You should never be looking for a boyfriend, boy toy, bully boy, or other CHDW (Clueless Horny Dominant Wannabe). If you are, go to the next profile now. You need help, which I cannot give you, because you know everything, while knowing nothing..!!. You prefer an exciting life surrounded by others, who care for you and support you in all that you do, just as you care for and support them in all that they do.You are not excessively bratty or feisty, willfully disobedient or play catch me if you can games. That is... youre not a games player. If you are... Please GO AWAY..!!Experience in the alternative lifestyle is not necessary, but having the proper personal characteristics and the proper reasons and motivations are critical. I will train novices, those with little or no experience, if I feel that you are suitable. Those with 247 live in experience will be retrained in my requirements and style.My preference is for a committed long term, if not a lifetime
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 About Your Profile And How Others May See It..!!
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Posted:Aug 21, 2007 8:52 pm
Last Updated:May 5, 2017 10:35 am
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You're Hoping To Find Just The Right One Online. Your Profile Is Your Introductory Statement, But Does It Convey The Right Message..?
Finding the "right one" online is like gold mining. One must shovel a lot of dirt to find a gold nugget or two. So anyone making a sincere search must accept that.
Accept the fact too, that your profile is fundamentally a marketing tool. That is you are using it to "sell" yourself, so to speak, to exactly the right person. So your profile must turn on that targeted right person, and not turn them off.
Those who fill their profile, blog or journal with complaints about the dirt they've had to shovel, are probably not the "gold nuggets" that others search for.
Some hints... if you include erotic or sexually suggestive photos with your profile to attract more responses, you will do just that. Every CHDW (Clueless Horny Dominant Wannabe), will email you, and overwhelm you with worthless emails.
Also... using photos from commercial or porn sites is a deception that may reflect badly on those who do it. Knowledgeable viewers write off these profiles as being from just another deceptive faker. However, if you mention that the photos are not of you, but show your interests, for example, that's usually acceptable. Selfies are more credible.
The men's magazines appeal to the lonely puppies, voyeurs and fantasizers.
Playboy magazine puts an exquisite centerfold in every issue to attract these very people. (I don't read or subscribe to these magazines. I prefer women in three dimensions, rather than two dimensions.)
Most truly experienced Dominants/Masters will not respond to profiles, where there is information that specifically excludes them. So a profile with no text, only a few words, or consists of little more than complaints about all the bad responses that you've received, aren't very informative or effective.
Be as specific as you can... the flip side of that coin is that you may eliminate many fine opportunities, if you have contradictions or anything unreasonable. Think things through carefully. For example... if you write that you're looking for a Dominant/Master, who is no older than 20, with 10 years experience, for a 24/7 TPE live in relationship, you probably won't get any valid responses.
Review your profile for obvious contradictions. Most truly experienced Dominants/Masters read profiles carefully and view obvious contradictions as coming from someone that's a bit flaky..!! A frequent contradiction is... relocation is checked off, and contact is described as limited to online/cyber only or local only. How does that work..?? One could write a book on all the contradictions one sees.
A big problem is using alternative lifestyle terms, without apparently knowing what they really mean. Hence causing the reader of a profile to be either confused or misinformed. This will also cause you to get responses, that don't match what you're really seeking.
The most misused term is 24/7 TPE (Total Power Exchange). This is the zenith of the alternative lifestyle. It really is defined as a live in, real time Master/slave relationship. It means a relationship that is 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, for 365 days a year. With the Total Power Exchange describing the fact that the slave has given her power and her will to her Master. The Master accepts this on the same basis and is totally responsible for both himself and his slave. Anything else is just an illusion.
Avoid using 24/7 TPE if you seek an occasional play partner or a lesser relationship. There are no breaks, vacations or time off in this relationship for either Master or slave, be they together or temporarily apart. Saying you're 24/7 TPE may seem cool to do, but if you're really not there, don't use the term.
Terms that need clarity...
Dominants are those who control and direct submissives. Masters are, or should be, Dominants, who will take responsibility for a submissive/slave over an extended period.
There should be a bond and commitment between Master and slave. Other Dominants can merely act Dominant during play and usually do not want to assume any responsibility for a submissive, outside of scene or role play.
A true Master is a higher level Dominant. Only those with the right proven skills should attempt to be a Master in an M/s relationship. The best Masters are natural leaders in both the alternative lifestyle and the vanilla world.
An important note: Although these two terms, Master and Dominant, are self-awarded and used willy nilly by people, Dominants can merely act Dominant, without any true skills, other than maintaining an effective act during play. Hence many Dominants are also switches at times. Masters, however should have leadership qualities that cannot be faked... those that try to play Master on an extended basis by acting, usually fail badly. An appropriate quote...
"Do not fall prey to the false belief that Mastery and Domination are synonymous with manliness."
A true Master/Mistress will withstand and welcome the test of time and they will be totally responsible for their submissive/slave. If you hook up with an actor/faker, it will lead to a train wreck relationship. Usually with a great deal of pain and hurt to the submissive/slave. Sadly that happens all the time.
It should be noted that the Daddy/little girl relationship is another way of expressing a Dominant/submissive or a Master/slave relationship. The activities in the relationship are defined by the Daddy/little girl roles each has. A live in 24/7 Daddy/little girl relationship is basically a Master/slave relationship. A part time or occasional Daddy/little girl relationship is another form of a Dominant/submissive relationship.
Some additional important points
Take the time to carefully Let your fantasies imagine how many people might be involved over a weekend..!!)
Master/slave... is a never ending role play, or should be, involving a Master and his slave(s), with ongoing other role plays, scenes and all of life's activities, including the necessary "vanilla" activities. However, the Master and slave define and develop their relationship and it's dynamics over time. They have an enduring bond and commitment to each other, in their respective roles as Master and slave.
A final item... that is the role of a Mentor or Protector, sometimes referred to as a "chicken hawk." A good Mentor is an experienced Dominant/Master, who advises a submissive in matters involving the alternative lifestyle. In writing these lines, I could be considered as a Mentor.
However there are those Mentors or Protectors, who pretend to be advisers, but assume the benefits and authority of a Master. That is, they assume exclusive access to the submissive, without assuming any responsibility for the submissive. These are the Mentors or Protectors, who are called "chicken hawks."
They get exclusive access to a submissive, including sexual access, and bar the submissive from contact with others, in the guise of protecting her from other nasty Dominants. They build a wall around the submissive, which excludes the submissive's contact with others, sometimes even the submissive's family.
Where does that leave the submissive..? It leaves her trapped in a box... until she figures out what's going on and leaves or is released. The Mentor in this case has become a gate keeper, who allows no one else through the gate. The submissive/slave in this situation will get no results from posting her profile.
I hope that the foregoing is helpful to those who care to read it... and if you have any thoughts, comments or questions, don't be too timid to contact me..!!
DrErosAlphaMale
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