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I'm terrible at writing such things, but, I'm a 40 year old Dom/Top bi man that's looking for bi playmates for BDSM, as well as just plain old fashioned sexual fun. I'm currently in a poly relationship with a woman that I've known for 12 years and with a new girlfriend. Both ladies may be involved at different times and this will vary with the situation. We, as in my girlfriend, my poly, and her husband MAY be interested in a bi sub cpl that would like to be involved with all 4 of us.

I'm not concerned with race, age (so long as you're legal or not old enough to be my grandparent), or background. Of course there has to be some physical attraction, though I'm the type of person that can find something attractive in almost anyone. I do insist that you be clean, discreet, drug and disease free. Some education is a plus (if, when reading your email, I have to stop and try to figure out what a word is supposed to be, I'm probably going to say "no thanks". Employed is a good thing as well! I'm not interested in a live in type relationship in any manner.

I am 6'2", about 250, shaved head and sometimes a goatee. I am clean, discreet, drug and disease free, college educated and professionally employed. I travel extensively for my job, so you should be willing to accept that this won't be an every weekend kind of relationship, and that sometimes my plans will change with very short notice.

I've been Dom for more than 10 years with experience with men and women. I've participated in things from lite bondage, to Japanese rope bondage, to cuckold cpls, to CBT and more. I'm very openminded and willing to try anything, so if there's something you're interested, I'm at least willing to listen to you about it and investigate if it's something I'm interested in pursuing.