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Very attractive and intellectual female Dominant well versed in sensual and psychological dominance.
A well-rounded package--feminine, classy, well-spoken, outgoing, a great conversationalist and fun to be around. While experienced and knowledgable in most aspects of bdsm, my style is one that focuses on sensually and playfully capturing and controlling through the mind. My D/s interests range from sexually kinky and erotic to traditional bdsm activities.

Seeking a sub/slave who understands the true dynamic of a Domme/sub relationship. You should derive your satisfaction from pampering and spoiling a beautiful Goddess. You are obedient and compliant. While you understand your interests and limits will be respected, you accept your needs are second.
Please be 38-55, attractive, classy, confident, intelligent and accomplished in your endeavors...
"you are a strong, capable man in public, but my slut behind closed doors"

A balanced vanilla and D/s romantic dating relationship would be ideal. D/s is just one aspect of my life, and I keep it compartmentalized and in perspective and you should too. Of course, I still enjoy good ol' fashioned vanilla sex and intimacy with no defined roles.

As one would expect, my standards for dating material are higher. Physically, your appearance shows a respect for your body. You are good-looking enough to easily attract women, you are taller than 5'10" (so I can wear my tallest heels!), have all (or most all your hair) and are caucasian.
If I dont consider you dating material, then your options with me are limited to strictly D/s. For strictly a D/s relationship (or house bitch position) as young as 30 would be considered. The younger you are, the more compelling with your experience you'll have to be for consideration.

I am straightforward and absolutely sincere in what I seek. All that I represent of myself is true and accurate. I expect the same from you. Be self aware and know what you want. My experience and knowledge in D/s is broad and extensive, and once I have determined that we could be a potential match, I will be forthright in addressing anything you may ask.

Be local or prepared to tell me how you can benefit me from afar (see last paragraph if you are not local).

consider the below standards of conduct that apply in your contact to all the ladies

your response:
Is there a reason why I include the below? yes! it is sad and pathetic to have to include what should be common sense.
It is a persistent issue that affects my experience. I wish to dedicate time to only those that I deem are a worthwhile investment, and my reasons are mine alone to determine--no justification or explanation necessary. I try to be polite in my interaction with others, however if you violate my requests, dont be too surprised if my response (or lack thereof) voices my disapproval or dismisses you. Stupidity does not deserve courtesy.
No chat requests or extended email exchanges will be tolerated-be prepared to provide a phone number upon request. I tend to want to move quickly to phone conversation so that we can begin the process of becoming acquainted--I use it as a barometer to determine if you are sincere about what you say you seek and are ready to act upon it. If you have any doubts, then please go play elsewhere.

Your response should include what you are seeking and what you can do for me (no "do-me" sluts!) - and not be cut and paste.
Respect starts from the first moment so I expect that you will make the point of your contact known in the first email contact. Have a purpose when you contact me.
Your response should not include mindless questions (that you claim are icebreakers). I do not want icebreakers. I do not find them polite-I find them to be annoying and a waste of time.

A footnote: the number of emails from those out of the los angeles area are out of control. Unless you will be in Los Angeles within 2 weeks of contacting me or have plans in place already to move here permanently, I do not need to hear your pleas of wishing to serve and being willing to relocate. So unless you are willing to send paid help in your place or pay me to have those services provided (housecleaning, massage, manicure/pedicure, etc) your contact is not welcomed.


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3/21/2023 12:25:36 AM

I am at a point where I would like a live in.

A romantic relationship would be ideal, but a house bitch would be acceptable.

I am in the process of purchasing a 3 bedroom home in an affluent part of the south bay area of Los Angeles. It will be fully remodeled and beautifully upgraded in a resort community with many amenities. 

I will NOT be supporting you. You will be expected to pay your own way and contribute financially to the household, as if you were a roommate. You should be a working professional with a good income or prove that you have the solid financial means to contribute.

I work full time from home M-F, a corporate type job with regular hours. You should keep a compatible schedule or travel frequently. 

Tell me what you could do to make my life easier and how you could serve, whether personally or within our household. What are your skills?

We'd start with a trial period first to assess our compatibility.

All other attributes, per my profile, still apply. You must be over 35 and have your life together. I'm not looking to "rescue" anyone with drama, mental illness, substance abuse, or instability in your life.

If you can't string together a decent intro, I can't be bothered with replying.

 

3/6/2017 2:59:46 PM
I'm not looking for play partners at this time, I want a boyfriend. And that means you can't have a wife, girlfriend or anyone that you're f'ing. And further, you HAVE TO BE LOCAL!
Read the whole profile if you're sincere.

2/21/2017 2:56:10 PM


Who is going to DomCon LA this May?


Why or Why not?

Would you be more encouraged to go if you could meet new friends, play partners or a romantic interest?
Think about how much more sincere the people are who attend events versus sit behind their keyboard??!! Be one of them! 😘

There will be a significant number of events and mingles geared toward the "newbie" and those that are not accustomed to attending public events.
So many reasons to attend--Go for the mingles, educational workshops, socializing, vendor booths for toys and clothes, play parties and so MUCH MORE!

here is a link to purchase your tickets:
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/domcon-la-2017-attendee-registration-tickets-29208779245?aff=Lifestyler&afu=5676955451

May 17-21 
DomConLA.com for info

Yours truly will be volunteering at many of the mingles 
Hope to meet you there!


2/1/2017 7:39:43 PM
Interaction here and offline upon meeting should be no different than someone you first met in person. Be real, be honest, be sincere, and be to the point... and mostly, be realistic with what you really want. 
Adults communicate, kids play games.

7/6/2016 12:17:47 AM
Lifestyle/Polyamorous party this weekend! I will be facilitating a discussion group at a very large polyamourous social party this weekend on the topic of D/s. Party is on Saturday 7/9 in the Brentwood/Los Angeles area at a very spacious private home. Attendance is expected to be 300+ as in past years. If you'd like to attend or meet me, please send me a courteous email and I will send you a link. Full details will be in the link and you are expected to read it fully. RSVP is mandatory and security will be present to enforce this. I will reply until Friday, 7/8.

5/16/2016 9:06:31 PM
Are you going to DomCon LA this weekend? I'm open to connecting and making new friends while there. If you're a hot man, perhaps you could escort me to one of the parties on Friday or Saturday night. If you're a woman, we could be each other's wing woman ;) and have fun with the cute boys. First impressions are important, so keep that in mind when you contact me :)

1/28/2012 5:57:24 AM
I'm in South Beach till Sun, 1/29. Any gentlemen bitches available to connect?

7/6/2011 6:34:16 PM

Considering other subs for mostly domestic and personal use.

 

If you're really REALLY exceptional and HOT (no exceptions), I may consider you as a lover to cuckold him. But you'll have to earn your way to that place. If you're going to message me about this, keep it respectful or you'll never get my attention.


5/17/2011 6:08:51 PM

I am going to DomCon LA this year!

 

It's this week, starting Thursday, May 19th through Sunday, May 22nd.

 

The first event I will go to will be the Meet and Greet on Thursday night. Then I plan on going to some of the workshops, as well as the Friday and Saturday parties (unless I find out about some of those wonderful offsite private parties)

 

Who wants to meet?

 

Anyone want to escort me to one of the night parties? (sames criteria applies as outlined in my profile)

 

I'll be with friends on and off throughout the weekend, but always looking to meet more. If you're a Domme, I have access to submissives to play with...if you're a sub, then perhaps you want to help me mentor a new Domme gf by allowing us to practice on you?

 

Im especially on the lookout for a wonderful new submissive play thing---maybe even more (by permission and encouragement of the bf who is away on a long term business assignment) A temporary boyfriend stand-in would be ideal :)

 

May even have a room or access to one for play and/or interviewing.

 

 


2/11/2011 3:12:05 PM

 

 

Los Angeles men only: 

 

Why do so many of you say you want a dating relationship/ltr, yet how you conduct yourself gives no indication of this desire?

 

Are grown men really that unsure of what they want?

Or just too insecure to be forthright in what you seek?

Or maybe you have never experienced just how wonderful it can be to have the total relationship?

 

If you're an attractive, intellectual, self-assured, well groomed man in his 40s who can balance the vanilla with the kink... you will get a prompt response from me, leading to phone and possibly to a meeting. That's how I roll :)


11/28/2010 8:52:09 AM

I have a TON of toys and clothing, new and never used/worn

dildos, anal toys and vibrators, strap-on harnesses, cbt/chastity devices, paddles- leather and wood, medical devices/toys, floggers, spreader bars and so much more, just ask

table pads, rubber latex gloves, condoms, lube

clothing - women sizes 4-6 and larger cross dresser sizes too
(including a beautiful purple latex dress bought from Syren)

shoes - size 8 womens, and crossdresser ladies size 12-14

If you live in the LA area, then perhaps it can be weaved into a mini play session :)

If you live out of the area, then I would be happy to do an online transaction via paypal (I could even list it on ebay if you'd prefer the security)

Many of these items were bought on stockroom. I will sell my new items at half their price.

Let's make this easy and respectful for both of us. Please dont waste my time with endless empty inquiries. Plainly state what you are interested in and I will reply with item description and photos, when available (or link, if online)


4/4/2010 2:02:25 PM
Who is going to DomCon LA this year?
It's May 13th-16th.

I plan on going on Friday and Saturday and possibly Sunday.
see domconla dot com

In the past years I have gone with a boyfriend, but this year plan to go alone and just meet up with friends. I would find it more rewarding if I can make new connections/friends...male and female.
I do have a room booked for Fri and Sat nights and trying to determine if it makes sense to keep it (because I only live 20 minutes away). Do you have need for a room?

Also seeking an escort for one or both parties at Passive Arts--see profile for criteria.

10/5/2009 11:12:28 AM
Italy trip update: You ask "How was my trip? I'll just say "Yes my trip was WONDERFUL. Thanks." This falls in the category of not so bright icebreaking questions. If you really want to know, then ask something specific.
Is this getting nitpicky--maybe... but how would you feel after getting over 100 emails from people you dont know asking you the same question. Kinda like asking, "How are you?" The other person responds "fine/okay/good"...and then we move on just like most people do

7/15/2009 1:37:43 AM
A Domme girlfriend and I will be traveling in Italy for most of the month of August (2009). Part of our itinerary is as follows:
New York (7/29 only), Venezia (7/30-8/2), Amalfi Coast area/Sorrento, Capri, Ischia (8/2-8/6), Roma (8/6-8/17), Firenze/Toscano (8/17-8/24) and Milano (8/24-8/27). We are seeking sub/slaves that want to enhance our vacation....anything from dinners out to meals in or showing us about town. Creativity counts--how can you make our vacation special and memorable...how will you spoil and pamper us? Tour guides are especially welcome, and any tips about your home town. We are seeking apartment rentals so any leads/contacts are appreciated. We are both US-born Italians. If it matters, I do speak Italian (although not totally fluent). We will be especially busy as we prepare to leave, so email with complete info the first time are expected (info about you, where you live, what you can do for us and when). We will have LIMITED email access whiile on the road, but emails are still welcome during our trip.

4/16/2009 12:03:46 AM
see fetishfriend journal entry 4-15-09

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 Age: 20
 Canada