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DarkTemper

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Summing up the mind and thoughts of oneself is always a hard task to complete. I feel talking about yourself is a tight rope event in which one does not want to belittle the things in their life, but at the sametime one does not want to appear to be boastful of their accomplishments in life. I will try my best to keep to the simple and basics of my life.

I am currently a 30 year old Dom that is married to a wonderful submissive known as tatianaDark on here, as well as the lover and Dom to serenekitten. I protect furiously the love and trust that my girls put in me, and I try on a constant basis to try to live up to their expectations, and to deserve the gift of submission they have given me.

To myself I see the relationship I have with my girls as a very important bond and gift; I know that without their willingness to submit to my will, that I am merely a fool with some fancy toys and I have no power over anyone. A Domiant/submissive relationship is built on the very real fact that without a submissive having trust in you and believing in you, that you as the Domiant have and are nothing.. They give us the power to control them, we have nothing but what they give us.

In my free time (what little I usually have) I enjoy woodworking, crafting objects, playing video games (mostly mmo's like City of Heroes and Warcraft), reading a good book, and just sitting enjoying the company of others.

I merely walk through this life, hoping to constantly learn and experience new things, and strive to make a home and world for my "family" to live in and enjoy, and bring some measure of pleasure to their life.

1/4/2009 5:56:36 AM
Only a little over a month until the next Winter Fetish Fair!!  We are all getting excited about the idea of getting away for a weekend of fun.  This year we managed to get a room in the Westin hotel itself where the fair will be held, so we won't have to travel to get to the fair or to rest between classes and such.  It will be sooo much fun!
12/19/2008 3:44:38 AM

I just have to say, for those of you out there that think telling my submissives lies or trying to tell my submissives that I am sneaking behind their backs, you are wasting your time and only proving to them and myself how dumb and shallow you are.  I believe and follow the practice of "open communication" with my submissives.  They know everyone I talk to and have full access to my chat program logs just as I have the same ability over them.  I feel no need to hide things from them. 

10/23/2008 3:36:35 AM
I consider myself a nice, gentle, and kind person, but do not mistake that kindness for weakness or stupidity.  I only have so much patience for people that think they are dominant and that they should automaticly have the respect and honor that has taken me many years to earn and in the case of some, much more. 

People that assume that they are in the right no matter what and think that my girls are behaving badly because they tell you the plain facts.  I am putting you on warning now that my name here really does cover who and what I am.  I am tired of hearing from dominant people that claim my submissives said or did something they did not do.  I have access to all of my girls chat and email programs, I can clearly read everything that is said between you and all you are doing is proving how little you respect others and their intelligance.

My girls have been taught about respect, honor, kindness, and where their places are in this world.

That place is with me, obeying me, and only me,
honoring the world at large,
showing respect to the level of respect that has been earned,
kindness to all the worlds people until they have proved they do not want or deserve it.

My girls are my world, so if you attack my girls be prepared for the battle of your life.
9/21/2008 2:35:17 PM
You know it is too funny... why is it when a male tries to contact someone to simply talk to, if they are female, the male is seen as a player and liar because they are looking for other people to talk to other then the girl or girls he is already in a committed relationship with.  Yet if the same male tries to talk to other males they freak out and think he is after that males submissives or such.  HOLY COW people fucking calm down.. for those of us not trying to steal or play someone we really truly just want to talk.. it can get boring talking to the wall when your girls are at work or out being social and you are home alone :p
6/26/2008 2:47:14 AM
Well it is that time of year again, time is drawing near for the next summer Fetish Fair Fleamarket coming for July 19th.  Last time we went to the fair we took the long trip early in the morning and the long drive back late at night, but this year we decided to get a hotel room for the weekend in Boston itself.  All three of us are really looking forward to the time alone together plus this will give us the chance to stay for the full event and see all the classes and such.  So who else is going to the Fair this summer?
6/2/2008 3:18:07 AM
Not much new is happening on our front other then our littlelostbunny requested to be renamed to show her new life and commitment, so I have renamed her serenekitten, serene for public life.   serene has been adjusting well and seems to be content and happy with her new place in life and I know I can not be prouder of her.
2/16/2008 11:50:12 AM
Well it has been a very eventful last month or so.  First got to spend the weekend of the Fetish Fair in the company of some very very good friends. 

The best thing that has occured recently is that I am the proud owner of a new pet, littlelostbunny.  She has agreed and accepted a collar of consideration for the time being and I feel she is meshing very well with Me and my wife/submissive tatianaDark.  They are both doing so well together and I feel this is the start of something very wonderful between the three of us.

Only the future can tell for sure.
12/13/2007 11:05:07 AM

Well.. it certianly been a very eventful couple of weeks around here...  Lots of holiday shopping and such, spending lots of time meeting new people and creating new friendships with people in the kink lifestyle.  Finally got the submissive to explore some of the areas she has had some curiousity in.  No one knows what the future may hold but I hope it will allow her to spread her wings some more and become the submissive she wishes to be.



On a side note; Only four more weeks until the Winter Fetish Fair in R.I.  We are hoping to be taking down a whole car load of people with us as well as a bunch of other friends from the kink community.  Even though we can not afford to stay the whole weekend, we are going down for one day to enjoy some shopping and classes with our good friends and to just have a wonderful kink-filled experience as well as introduce one of our new friends to her first fetish fair and let her open herself to all the fun that can be had.

Anyone else out there going to the Fair?

8/29/2007 5:18:04 PM
Well, it's been about a week since the first meeting of the Southern Maine TNG group, a group of younger (18-35) BDSMers, and still feel it was a good shot at our first munch, even though there was few in attendence.  I hope that our next meeting on September 23rd will have more people attending.  If anyone out there is interested just drop me a line and will give you the info ;)
MissMelissaUK
 
 Age: 24
  Maryland