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CplInRichlands

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It is funny I just looked at my profile and realized that it had somehow been erased, not sure how that happens. It is funny I have been in this lifestyle for a while now and I realize I do not fit the norm, because I have my own opinion about dominants and submissive. My main belief is that a submissive is not dumb or a doormat, and the reason for this is I would a assume quite a few will end up in a relationship with their submissive. Whether it leads to Marriage or some type of commitment you could end up in a committed relationship. I would think that the person you are with should not be a mindless individual and should be a functioning member of society. If you had kids you would not have to worry about the safety of your child because your sub/slave can make a decision. Just because she gives you that precious gift does not mean she is not intelligent. Granted the one thing I have seen is so many that write in a profile and they really come across rude, if you have certain requirements there are polite ways to put it and there are also polite ways to responds. My other favorite ones are people who delete mail without reading, I totally understand if it spam, my thought is does it hurt to check it. I think there should be a separation for identification like instead of Slave or Sub, it should be I like Kink but I am not submissive, just because you like a couple of swats on your ass and your hair pulled does not make you a submissive, just like because you spank someone and you pull their hair does not make you a dominant. I think after this rant profile I will have to actually maybe start writing in the journal.

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7/2/2017 6:11:53 AM
I have noticed when reading a lot of profiles that they will start out with a Do Not contact me if you are this or that. When you actually read the profile it does not state what they are looking for.


I think when you start of with if you belong to this group do not contact me, it raises a red flag. The reason I say this is I have Bisexual sub males contact me all the time, if my profile is not specific enough is it there fault, can I assume they did not read my profile.
My my profile is not specific enough, does it hurt me to respond and say sorry I not looking for a sub male good luck in your search.

I think the smarter thing to do is rewrite ones profile and say what you want vice what you don't want.  I think it is better to say I am seeking a certain race, vice I don't like a certain race. I say that because if you just single out one out of so many.

I think it is easy to say something like:

My requirements are Single Caucasian/Black/Asian Dominant or sub(what you are looking for)
Age 18 - 35 (no old people)

Those are just quick examples to show a positive way, and I know there are many more positive way to say things.

If you present yourself as negative, then that is how people will see you, I see people who say these things and then say sorry I don't mean to be a bitch or whatever, I think most want a positive person in there life, first impression are lasting impression.






7/1/2017 12:26:56 PM
It is amazing how many offers I have received to purchase a slave, this makes me wonder how many have actually purchased one. In one day I received 3 offers to purchase slaves.
Well lets get down to fact that it is not legal or binding, to sell someone, matter of fact I think it is called Human Trafficking, so for the seller and buyer are both committing a crime. The last one I decided to toy with and I indicated that we would have to physically meet somewhere, after both our lawyers had created a binding contract and an escrow account would be used to protect us both. I also indicted that both lawyers would have to agree. Considering they were trying to sell this person for a mere $800 and wanted the money sent Western Union (which I don't know how they stay in business for all the illegal stuff that goes through them).

Well as you can guess after laying out those terms never herd from them again.

Now my quandary is this is a site where you can find a sub/slave for free why pay someone. Yes there are a lot of fake accounts and non serious people, But I have met quite a lot of sincere people on here, whether you are compatible or not that is another thing.

The one thing I did notice is that you cannot list bad users, I would think that collarspace might want to create their own list. some profiles you read and its not a matter of bad writing, you can tell its an account that is trying to scam collarspace users.


6/27/2017 7:30:06 PM
I just updated my profile, for some reason the picture was not there and there was nothing written. But I think I might have ranted a little bit, so I think I will have to update maybe in a week or so. 

But what I realized is that I have a lot to say and I should use this journal app to write it down.

I continually tell my wife to start a website to pass information on, she has some of the most intelligent insight and I think it should be passed on to help a lot of the new submissive out there.

I think so many submissive are misinformed and do themselves a disservice.

Everyone has a certain way they are dominant or submissive and none is totally right or wrong. There are somethings though that are totally wrong and really makes no sense and if you have to ask the question then there is your answer.

We both see too much judgmental people or people who think they are better than someone else, you would think in a lifestyle that is not openly accepted that we would be more open. 

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GoddessMiki
 
 Age: 23
  Montana