"To have a body is to suffer"
(a saying of Bodhidharma, master of Zen Buddhism)
He was a master of Zen, I am a master of BDSM
If you have a body I will help you to suffer
I will help you to find your enlightenment

Funny how the world goes. I turns out that a long relationship ended last year without my realising it. We just drifted away from each other and it took until spring of this year to realise how far it had gone. It was dead or dying.
After a period of reflection I find myself looking forward to the future and - maybe - meeting the right one. I am always happy to play but I would prefer to meet a relationship orientated submissive or slave. I find more value in LTR as it allows trust to build up and play to become more creative.
I have been on the scene a long time (ex-London fetish clubs) now retired heer to East Anglia where I have my own private playroom.

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I managed to avoid the coronation.

Phew!

Well blow me, the journal feature has returned.

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On the nature of submission or slavery:

"Submission is not about being unable to escape - it is about not wanting to escape.

Submission is not about fear - it is about trust.

Submission is not about sex - it is about love.

Submission is not about pleasure - it is about true happiness."

I am happy to talk to anyone who identifies as a submissive or as a slave. I do not get hung-up on the words. What is important is what is in our hearts.

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It is a slow process, sometimes like swimming in glue, but I am still seeking the right person. I am willing to talk, I am willing to meet.
I am lifestyle and I am genuine. I do not expect you to necessarily embrace the lifestyle aspects and I will do nothing to 'out' you. I DO expect you to be genuine.

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