cjmath

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Looking for an intelligent, independent, submissive (and perhaps even a bit inexperienced) girl to explore with. I'm not a part of any official "scene" here (not to say that I'm not very interested; I've now met a few locals), but have enjoyed BDSM in private for years. I haven't actually been in a M/s relationship formally thus far, but its been a component of every serious relationship I've had. I'm liberal, progressive, humanist, skeptic, and agnostic. A lover of imported beer and strong coffee. Message me if you'd like to go for drinks and conversation, and if we hit it off, we can go from there.

1/17/2008 4:49:42 PM I'm amazed by something I've seen several times on CM. A girl registers a profile, and within 3 days posts an entry saying that she's collared and fully owned by someone. three days I believe in love at first sight as much anyone, but it seems to be that commiting to a total power exchange relationship should be a "big deal" for both parties. You would never get married after 3 days, most of us wouldn't even get engaged after three days. But in many ways, entering into a Master/slave relationship is a far deeper commitment than marriage. Maybe I just worry too much about complete strangers...