KISA
Individually what I am seeking: I am in a unique relationship. What I am is a dominant man. I am also a gay Daddy in a long term relationship with a het female. (Go figure – sometimes what we thought we were looking for comes in the most surprising packaging!)

What I am seeking is a boy – gay or bisexual is acceptable. I enjoy the Daddy/boy relationship that can exist. I am only interested in a long term closed poly relationship. What does that mean? It means that anyone coming into the poly household we have would clearly understand their position. In this case poly does NOT mean that all household members are automatically sexual partners.

Idealy there would be a “getting to know you” period hopefully leading to a live-in situation as the goal. It would also be a realistic, livable lifestyle power exchange relationship. I am a dominant who is nurturing by nature. My desire is to find someone who will find fulfillment in a caring, loving, relationship based in poly-fidelity. What I have stated is based on my personal desires but it also fits our existing dynamics. Our household provides a framework to grow in. If you are looking for micromanagement we are not for you.

What should you possess? Preferred age range is 35-55 but will consider other possibilities based on several factors one of which is the possession of an open, mature mindset. In order to have a fulfilling relationship you should be emotionally, psychologically and financially secure. It is also essential that it is understood that “no drugs” means no use of illegal drugs or the misuse of legal drugs is a deal breaker and will not be tolerated. A non-smoker and non-drinker preferred.(read as smoking allowed outside and periodic drinking only) D&D free – with recent paperwork from all parties without exception. What does “no children” mean? It means they need to be grown and living on their own or they now live on their own.

Who and what am I? I am many things. I don’t fit neatly into any stereotypical box. My relationships are also “person specific”. I am involved in my community and a member of NLA-Atlanta, NLA-I and a participant in AMC (Atlanta Mentors Coalition). I am retired military and currently a student. I can be a Daddy, dominant, top, a friend, lover, or partner. I am interested in intentional communities, co-housing, poly fidelity (translates to no swinging or swapping). I do not drink or smoke or use illegal drugs or misuse legal ones.

My spiritual path is one of exploration. I believe in being a lifelong spiritual student who is always evolving.

I am comfortable in jeans and t-shirts, uniforms, leather and can clean up rather well – time and place appropriate. While a Daddy with my boy as well as a dominant I am also have a KISA relationship with Ms CC. KISA? A Knight In Shining Armor which can equate to a courtly love, a partner, the house man or major domo and, yes, Ms CC encourages my quest for a boy.

What we are seeking: Helpful traits? I helps if you are a multi-talented, multi-tasker, intelligent, enjoy witty reparte’, enjoy play, enjoy protocol, and thrive in a caring, mutually supportive household. Understand previous training may not apply and be willing to take direction. Four words that exemplify what we endeavor to live by are trust, honor, loyalty and respect. Are we perfect? Of course not but we do attempt to lead by example. Open, honest communication is not only wanted but mandatory. (Drama is best left to the theater – we attempt to live in a drama free zone.) We are not looking to relocate as we have a modest home here.

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