I like simple pleasures, a walk in some woods or along a beach with someone special is preferable to anything noisy or crowded. I have a keen interest in libertarian politics and I like reading, playing in photoshop, chess, scrabble & cooking.
I've had an interest in BDSM since earliest memory began, before I knew what it was really and I've been active for around 15 years, mostly in long term things so have had limited partners.
My ideal person will probably be aged between 40 and 60. I need a firm hand, appreciate someone strict and think I'd probably be happiest in a traditional relationship. He will probably have an active imagination and a wide variety of interests.
I like a mix of soft and hard; gentle coaxing & threats, subtle and blatant, innocent and sinful, prim & proper and obscene.
I need a mental connection so not looking for any kind of casual play.
Also looking for an experienced home body piercer.
