seriously, now.... is there ANYONE out there that is for real, honest, and looking for a true M/s relationship? 

I am starting to believe that there are only posers in this website, and nothing else.

If there is one thing that bothers Me a lot, and tests My patience, is being stood up.  I do not care what the reason is, since in this day and age we all have cell phones.  Yes, this is a big pet peeve of mine

journal entries....they allow you into the mind set of some people, but you can scare others with what you say.

I guess the following is more for personal ranting reasons than anything else.  I hope I do not "scare" away anybody...but...

.....if you are going to be on a site like this, why do you feel like lying is a good thing?  on any situation, lying is not good.  But when you are in this type of site, looking for what we are looking for, truth and honesty become more than important.  A Dominant/Master/Mistress must be able to trust the submissive/slave.  If there is no trust there, then the relationship will fail as any training will be based on lies.

Further, the submissive/slave must be able to trust the Dominant/Master/Mistress, or he/she will not be able to service well.  Servitude based in fear and distrust is not going to please anyone.

If you lie, the lies always will end up catching up with you.  Why do it?  There is no sense to it at all.  All they do is show what a dumbass, fake, wanna be you are.  Plus it discourages those of us that are honest from continuing our quest for something serious and real.

*sigh*

I wonder why it is SO darn hard to find a true kajira.  

So many people talk the talk, but can't seem to be able to even take one step towards walking the walk.  From not responding to messages that they read (which is very rude, and disrespectful) to not being what they claim to be.

oh well....My search continues