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Im looking for local, single men who are interested in a monogamous or monogamous with room for play relationship. I enjoy dancing (mostly bluesLindy), walking in local parks, and even going to the gym. I want to get back into gymnastics, but have been nervous and getting back into shape after an unrelated injury.
I have eclectic tastes in music - everything from Beethoven to Nine Inch Nails, and most other artists on the spectrum between. Im generally not into watching TV much, though going to movies as a date, or movieBBQ nights at a friends place, are a lot of fun. I will read almost anything that is reasonably well written, and a few things that arent, but particularly enjoy the Sci FiFantasy genre.
I met my previous Dominant here through the walking group, and we were together for about 2 12 years. Before that, I was in relationships for 6 years as a Domme, 3 years as a submissive, and 1 year as a slave, as well as some egalitarian kinky relationships. The dynamic with an individual person depends on how I react to and interact with them, and the agreements we make.
Some people make me want to yield to them, do things to please them and make their life easier, and collapse to my knees when they pull my hair. Others bring out my predatory side, and I enjoy hurting them in incredibly yummy ways, seeing the vulnerable way they look up at me, meeting my every whim. Occasionally, with another switch, weve taken turns thwacking and getting thwacked for hours until we were too exhausted to move, and just cuddled up and slept in each others arms. I dont have a lot of must have kinks or hard limits, most things are negotiable and a matter of degree. My partners enthusiasm tends to be contagious!
Almost any implement can be used in a way that is hotyummy or in a way thats above my pain tolerance. Im generally a mid-range masochist I suppose. Ive done some edgierscarier stuff, and enjoyed it, but sensation play has its place, too. Suspension can be particularly meditative and literally floaty. Singletails tend to burn like whiskey, then mellow to a glow, and can be cathartic in their intensity. Im not super into sensory deprivation, but the sensory overload that washes over me when it ends is amazing.
As a topdominant, my pleasure comes from my partners reactions, the way their breathing changes, the noises they make, the way they flinch or lean into it. I pinned my playpartner down with my weight while I sang Rockin Robin. Sometimes it is very sensual, sweet, and develops the bond between us, sometimes its silly. The first time I tried florentine flogging, I realized its the same motion as double-dutch jump rope.
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2/21: New photos of me and my sweetie HBullH from Fetlife courtesy of Sundin_Photo, taken at the Vivid 007 Party on 2/19. |
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The Star Trek corset photos are by @Sundin_Photo on Fetlife, posted with permission. Taken at Science Friction party at the Citadel 1/8/16 |
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The new photos (with the desert sky background) are from @sundin_photo taken at BENT - Risque Road 8/7/15 |
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| Age: 48 |
| Sheffield,
United Kingdom |
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