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Not interested in couples, or married people.If youre here hoping to find something to masturbate to, then please move on. Im only interested in getting to know people their minds first.

Please dont ask me to be your live-in slave, my career comes first.

Alsoif you believe that womens purpose in life is to submit to a man, please go ahead an that take a long walk off a short pier.



That said,

Submission is a choice and only the sub decides if or when to let go of control to what degree and with whom. Dont expect to see the submissive side the first time we talk, or the first time we meet. If I like you as a person, I may show my submissive side to you, in due time.



For me, kinks seem to be a deep emotional energy exchange. It has many different flavors and feelings. Each one has its place.



I look like and dress like a tomboy. If youre into girlygirls that are into hair and makeup, then we will not click.

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1/26/2018 6:21:45 PM
What type of person contacts a person they don't like? 
Why do people decide to hit the 'message' button to let me know that they hate, yes HATE my profile? There's plenty of profiles on CS that I do not enjoy but why on earth does someone think 'I never want to talk to this person, I'm going to tell them that.... "

What is wrong with people?

4/1/2016 4:31:35 PM
I've been thinking about gender recently. And I've come the concusion that I have no interest in traditional gender roles. Gender definitions itself seems rather bull-shity. 

Anyone that can give you a quick definition between 'boys and girls' are just plain wrong. 
When we try to scientifically validate the differences between genders - so many to 'established gender slogans' come into questioned; ideas around 'women can multi-task better' or 'men are better at spatial reasoning' have been completely disproven. 

When it comes to gender identity, I don't think I have any. I don't feel like I belong to either politicial parties that divide themselves into masculine or feminine. I also feel like its a complete waste of limiting the person that you are, and the range of emotions that you feel - to something that can fit into these extremely limiting binary boxes. 

All this to say, I can't stand 'manly men' and have a hard time relating to people that think that these boxes are worth fitting into. 

6/13/2013 5:14:57 PM

Since I've joined CM, I've moved to
from Halifax to Montreal
from Montreal to Ottawa
from Ottawa to Toronto
I wonder where I'll end up next.

- each time a career move :) 


5/3/2012 4:57:51 AM

More Categories: 

There seems to be three kinds of dominant people on this site. (Note: By 'people' I mean males and females, and I'm limiting this to doms as I dont interact with subs much). 

Those that have had these thoughts before they were old enough to realize that these thoughts come with labels and categories. And for these people, finding a submissive partner is for the purpose of expressing a part of themselves that they hide from the rest of world.

Those that are driven by revenge. These people have been deeply hurt by a person made them feel powerless, and are driven to get that power back. What happened to them was non-consensual, however these people are not assholes, and therefore seek consensual outlets for their rage. 

The third category would be vanilla people who had ended up in a relationship with someone from the first category, and through classical conditioning, grew into it.

I dont think that pro-dom/es really fall into a category, as its merely a business that proves a service. 

 


12/3/2011 10:04:47 AM

The content below is not to be taken literally - it is figuratively speaking.
A session can be so intense that it can feel like a drug, and when it ends, coming down from that level of intensity can feel like detox.

Detox starts now
Crucial Moments
Grab hold of memories
let them live out their existence in my mind
and let go.

Detox awakens my mind,
and takes an inventory of the damage

The sore spots, the blank stares, the intense thoughts about sweet nothings, causing my body to react and hide this reality from my mind. The deafening emptiness of a room where intensity once existed; now just a room. Four walls, one ceiling, one floor...not long ago was a cage of pain. 

Pain brings about focus, brings out vulnerabilities, brings about fear.
Brings about relief. Brings about shame. Testing my capabilities to withstand and not give in; refusing to be defeated by my abuser.  


11/17/2011 2:34:10 PM

 

Reflections: 
 
All things dark and evil. Thats what this site seems to be about. We are here to indulge in our darkest desires; because thats where the light is. 

Ideal mate: Someone to Abuse and torture
Ideal match: Someone to Abuse and torture me
Are we all insane? 

Criminals camouflage well on this site. The regular people desperately try to justify, why their profiles are a click away from psychopaths that represents darkest pits of humanity. 

For some its a need, something they crave when not readily available.
For some its gravy, and everyone loves gravy. Only on this twisted site, those that need are somehow superior to those who want. The onliners, the players... they're not real. They say 'Hey you! You're not real! You're interests are not real!' Laughable. But somehow the masses on this website have decided this is the gospel truth. 
How extreme can you be? Me? Not at all. Not interested in being extreme. Just interested in being me.

 

 


12/27/2010 11:56:02 PM

Kink/Ds has quite a range. Where are you on that range? Where am I? (I'll now define the range in 2-dimensions):

First dimension:

On the far left-side would be the lighthearted bedroom fun, and on the far right would be the 24/7 fantasies and the ultimate authority of consensual-non consent.
Second dimension:

On one extreme would be where the said dominant partner is dominant all the time, and closely resembles gender roles.
One the other extreme are the switches. Where each partner considers dominance to be a role, and not an identity.

So where am I on that scale? Scattered in every direction it seems.I don't think the dominant partner is dominant all the time, but I do consider dom vs sub a part of personal identity. I'm a submissive, but not a sub through and through. I throw gender roles to the wind. They go completely ignored. I'm not traditional in any sense, and a strong atheist. I don't have any 24/7 fantasies, nor do I want to be 'under somebody's control'. That said, consensual non consent does grow into my relationships. I admire a man that knows himself enough to know his weakness, and isn't afraid to admit them. A man who is always strong, always right, always knows what to do; is a cartoon character. And I have outgrown cartoons.


12/26/2010 4:48:39 PM

Looking for
a permanent full-time position
a part-time short term position..

Are we applying for a job or looking for partners to explore our sexuality/lives?
Why did the people on this website adopt a language that is reserved for an employer/employee relationship? I'd expect a sub applying for permanent full time position with suitable master... to say "and I expect a decent salary!"


10/17/2010 6:40:02 AM

Essentially, I dont believe that a random guy who attaches a 'master' to his nick deserves any extra rights or privliages that a sub/slave does not have. Any power exchange that does occur in a Ds relationship, happens naturally, and is born out of trust and respect. I dont trust or respect strangers, and nor should anyone.

I'm not attracted to 'alpha male' type guys. [rolls eyes].
I'm looking for a regular guy who happens to have a dom side. As I am a regualr gal who happens to have a submissive side.

 


9/20/2010 9:05:11 PM

Working on a new profile now. Finding it really difficult to come up with something coherent.

While I'm not into anything extreme, My fantasies sometimes are. So many profiles on here, doms I would never contact or want in my life, nontheless, seem very intriguing and resonate in my mind.

I'm have enough experience to be aware of the effect that each dom has on a sub. Allowing someone extreme into my life would change me in ways I dont think are positive. I suppose its just not the direction I want my life to go.


9/20/2010 9:04:55 PM


Rules of engagement:

Being a nonconformist, there some things I will not do:

I will not call you Master or Sir or even capitalize He/Him/His.

I will spell my name with a capital, as well as yours.

I will not accept anyone talking down to me. Treat me as an equal, or don't contact me.

 


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