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| Please don’t send me one line introductions. I’m not looking for random hookups...I’m not even sure I’m really looking for anything aside from possible friendships. I’m very new to the poly lifestyle and I’m still finding out who I really am. I appreciate patience and consideration in any and all dealings with me. Also, if I know you in real life and you want to be friends here too, that’s cool, so long as you don’t mind my quirks and kinks, I don’t mind yours. To each their own and all that.
I'm actually demisexual, which is a subtype of asexuality. No that doesn't mean I haven't "found the right person to make me like sex" I found that person, he lives with me, and I still don't care about sex, not like other people seem to. I like kissing and cuddling and things like that though, but don't go trying to change me. If you can't deal with it, don't come near me. I am, however, biromantic, so I like both guys and girls.
I’m a voracious reader, generally I read fantasy novels, but I’ll read more or less anything, and just recently finished two BAs, one in Greek and Roman Studies, and one in Linguistics with a Minor in English. I greatly appreciate good grammar and spelling, though it’s not necessary 24/7. I do generally dislike constant chatspeak, but I can deal with it if that’s the only way you’re comfortable with typing. I plan to continue my education in Library and Information Technology this fall, and I love people who love books.
I’m an emotional introvert who likes to listen more than talk, and I’m generally shy in real life until I get to know someone well enough that I feel comfortable with them, though I am a lot more talkative in writing. I try not to mention personal problems to those who probably could care less or who aren’t involved, but I do have them and some days are better than others. Again, I appreciate patience in anyone I have any sort of relationship with.
I also have issues with drugs of all kinds (excluding alcohol, or unabused prescription medication) and would appreciate not having them involved in my life. For those who have read or seen A Clockwork Orange, I have a similar physical reaction to drugs as Alex does to violence after his ‘reformation.’ I just figure it’s fair to give notice rather than having to have individual conversations. Therefore, I will not tolerate drugs being used around me, and while I can sort of endure casual mention of drugs or drug use, it still makes me uncomfortable.
Let’s see, more about me...I love movies, video games, roleplaying (the non-kinky Dungeons and Dragons or White Wolf variety), LARPing, anime (including Hentai)....Yes I’m generally a geek and a nerd put together, but I appreciate everyone’s individual likes and dislikes and no one person has to be interested in everything I am (I already have that person in my life <3). I love learning about anything, even if I don’t retain the information, and if you have some sort of interesting obsession or topic you want to chat about to someone, I’m all ears, so long as you can tolerate my lack of knowledge.
I guess that’s all I can think of about myself. Feel free to ask me questions, though I retain the right to refuse to answer ^_^
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