I was asked once: "Do Doms lick pussy?"
I fumbled with a response, because it was a question I had never considered. Is burying my face in a vagina considered a submissive act? If I had a hard time answering it back then, I'm sure others have struggled with the same question.
My answer then was something witty like: "They do if they want to keep their subs." But that was just me thinking on my feet. The reality is that not every sub wants to see their dom with his or her face between their legs. And some doms may not see it as "domly". Some doms see themselves as "Pimp Of The Year" and old-school pimps don't lick pussy. At least they say they don't. I am personally skeptical. But here's a news flash: doms, no matter how many subs are in your stable and whether or not you loan them out to other doms, you are not pimps. So, you can let go of that old-school pimp shit. It is not applicable here.
This question came to mind again recently as I asked... no... ordered my baby girl to sit on my face. Licking her pussy turns me on and I do whatever turns me on as long as we have negotiated it. Wrestling an orgasm out of her clit with my tongue feels like a dominant act to me. Seeing her reduced to a quivering mass of helpless spasms is empowering.
"That's right! I did that shit!"
I feel no less manly or domly with my baby's neatly trimmed mons grinding against my upper lip or my tongue doing the velvet buzzsaw on her engorged clitoris then I do when I stop between cracks with the dragon's tail to lick or kiss one of the welts I just raised.
"You mean you kiss your sub's ass?"
"Yes. Because I own that ass. I do whatever I want to it."
But hold on now, I still haven't answered the question. Don't go licking the cake bowl quite yet.
I know female (and male) doms who balk at the idea of giving a sub a blowjob. I know others that have no issue with it. The hard rule, like everything else in this lifestyle, is that there are no hard rules. It all comes down to what you and your sub have negotiated and I would suggest you discuss this before going down there. If she's the type of sub who sees it as a submissive act, she may never respect you as a dom again after seeing you come up from between her legs with your lips glazed like a donut and her juices dripping from your goatee. If she's the type who sees a dom's role as getting her off however she gets off, in pain and in pleasure, and sees her submission as a gift to be repaid in orgasms, then adopting the "True doms don't lick pussy" stance might lead to her snatching the whip from your hand and showing you the door.
If you like licking pussy, discuss it with your sub. Ask her how she feels about it, and act accordingly.
"Do true doms lick pussy?"
This one does.