So I have checked out this site a few times and decided to make a profile finally. I'm more the type of person that has to really know people before I open up very much, so I'll probably keep this pretty simple for now.
I have been into this lifestyle now for about 3 years or so pretty consistently. I have kind of a natural sub personality anyway, so I guess that has a lot to do with it. I like to talk with other people and learn from their experiences and ideas a lot. I am pretty careful about who I really open up to and sub for so I mostly look for something long term when it comes to d/s type relationships. I'm not sure where the idea comes from that sub equals slut, but that isn't the case for me. I guess maybe those stereotypes get pushed by people who want to believe them or something.
I know there is a lot of nonsense that goes on with these sites so let me just throw it out there that I am not on here looking for attention, compliments, money, gifts, or any of that. I am not looking for a sugar daddy type of thing, I have worked and supported myself since I was 16 pretty much.
I don't have any strong preferences as far as race, age, religion etc. but most of the people I have been involved with in the past tended to be quite a bit older than me. I guess that feels more natural to me. They also were not any kind of romantic sort of relationships either so I didn't really get into this by dating anyone into it. I guess I don't really blend dating and d/s like a lot of people do. Usually it has been more like a mentoring or even like parenting type of thing more than like a dating situation. People that are into this mostly for the sexual aspect of it tend to not really be a great match for me honestly. I think of this as something that is very personal and intimate but not so much romantic or sexual I guess. I will add more to this later on, but for now I will just kind of leave it at that. Hopefully I'll find some interesting people to talk to here!