The next 5 weeks are going to be hell as I finish this semester. So PLEASE be patient if I don't get back to your messages!!

But then the summer starts!  And be prepared My little bois and girls because I have a lot of time to make up for!!!!

Amsterdam was incredible!  I had such a wonderful time.  No time to process all I saw, ate, visited, and experienced.  Plus I have to write a lengthy paper about My trip for grad school.

I'm so excited!!  I leave for Amsterdam this Friday.... I have some scenes set up over there and am going to visit some BDSM friendly clubs.

I will also see Daughtry and Fall Out Boy while I'm there!!

Visiting the Red Light District for research on LGBT sex workers.

See you all after the 18th!!!!

This is a really rough semester but I love the challenge!!  So if I don't reply immediately it's because I'm reading a shit ton of research.  Typically I'm spending 4 - 6 hours reading each day.

Still looking for information on Amsterdam from the kinky community.

Since CM doesn't allow names of FAKES to be posted so others aren't taken advantage of; I'm changing how I handle appointments.

After he contacted Me and set up a scene and payment (yes I am a Pro Domme) he disappeared and refused to communicate.

I arranged My schedule to his request of a 3 hour session.  This pisses Me off to no end.  I have better things to do with My day.

If you are not intending to carry through than say, "this is just a fantasy of mine"  or "I only want to do this online" 

Really people?  Is this too fucking hard to comprehend??

If you have a blank profile your message goes straight to bulk mail.  Meaning I won't read it.

Still need more info about Amsterdam.  Tell Me what you liked and what not to miss and what not to waste My time on.  I'm there for research and have only a few precious hours each day to explore on My own.  THANKS!

Well this semester is going to be a rough one, that's for sure!  5 classes and international travel for research.

Has anyone been to Amsterdam???

There is one good thing about CM.  Not too many political rants.  As if I would come to a BDSM site to talk about... politics?  sigh.

Don't expect Me to online chat with you if you have never spoken to Me.  Why would I waste My time with you?  My time is precious and chatting takes away from other tasks I am doing while online.

Besides, that is simply RUDE!!  And again, ONE LINE messages will get you deleted and blocked.  One line is lazy and I can't tolerate lazy people.

H A P P Y    N E W    Y E A R !!!

I hope 2014 brings you peace, confidence, and love.

Finished the semester with straight A's !!!!  Take that grad school!!!

I'm not online during the break; as I need to recoup from school.  Also enjoying My children who are also on break from school.

Best wishes to all for this Holiday Season; whatever holiday you choose.

Miss Stormy

Finals are upon Me....so please if you have sent Me a message it may take Me a week to get back to you.

ALSO, how many times do I have to say this, ONE LINE MESSAGES will get you deleted and then blocked.  It is not up to Me to make conversation.  That's up to you.

Well it looks like it's a go!!!  I will be seeing BDSM folks and more specifically Transgender folks in private practice.  Even though I possess several degrees and licensures I will bill Myself as a "life coach" due to conflicting issues with My licensure.    When the laws change to be more gender fluid and accepting of Transgender individuals I must go this route for now.   Please message Me if you would like counseling.

Rant and rave time folks....

Seems there is a new crop of 18-20 year old "financial dommes" (sigh) Their tell tale photo of their face and the middle finger is boring, unimaginative, and plain old lazy.  Come on little girls that's the best you can do? *rolling eyes*  What a slap in the face for those of us that are true Dominants.

*putting away the soapbox*

It seems that CM throws Me cycles of potential subs and slaves.  Right now I'm in a cycle of meeting interesting people.  Does that make CM bi-polar?

I always appreciate conversations that have new points of view in our shared lifestyle.  I also appreciate decent grammar, punctuation, and correct spelling.

Grad school is intense!!  I have a full day of classes - 6 hours of lecture and 2 hours of study group.  My internship is also amazing.  I love being challenged by all this!!

Grad school is very hard but I'm loving it.  I am no longer taking applications for slaves/subs.  I have a domestic slave that I'm happy with and look forward to training.

If you message Me please realize it may take days for Me to respond.

Surprise, surprise!!  Turns out I love foot worship.  A slave I am considering did a fantastic job of foot worship and painting My toe nails. 

I will be in the Cleveland area on Tuesday and Wednesday nights from now until the end of the semester - December.  My schedule will change in January.  So, if you are in Cleveland and you have a desire to be My slave or sub......send Me a message.

So My hater is a true coward.  She has her profile hidden.... so people can not write her unless she has written to them.

 
Gee, pretty lame if you hide your profile and attack people.  I guess she must be hideous if she has to hide her entire profile....LOL

Why oh WHY do people only post pictures of themselves naked???   To Me BDSM is not about sex, it's not sexual.  It's the need for control or the need to give up that control.

I would far rather see pictures that show your personality, mood, or something thought provoking.  Try it subs and slaves..... see what happens.

How exciting!!!  I have 3 or 4 potential domestic servants.  Let the interviews begin!!!

YUCK!  Having to do My own laundry and housework SUCKS!!

I am in desperate need of a domestic sub/slave... NOW!

REALLY??!!  "hi"  is all you have to say to Me??!!

Oh! This sub sounds so wonderful.  N*O*T

Come on people.  As one male sub pointed out to Me...  there are some 300 male subs to ONE female Domme here on CM.   How the hell do you expect Me to notice you with a message of      "hi"     ????????????????

Why do people leave their profiles BLANK??!!  It is not intriguing it is annoying!   BAH!

Life is very hectic right now.  Issues, issues, and more issues.   Trying to fit in My needs for BDSM during this time is extremely difficult.

Please be patient.

Still getting one liners..... I delete them immediately!!!

On the bright side; I have received some very well thought out and articulated messages.  Ones that show good insight into the sender's frame of mind and where they are in respect to BDSM. 

This gives Me hope!

Due to continuing issues and disappointments I will no longer accept submissives or slaves with no experience.  Here's why:

AN OPEN LETTER TO THOSE WITH NO EXPERIENCE

  So you've decided to approach Me.  Great.  We've had several discussions and we seem to match.  Great.  Now we've progressed to meeting in public and there is chemistry. WONDERFUL.  I've given you a contract and we've discussed it.  Onward.

   Talking on the phone is productive however I've come to conclusions that this is all you're about.  You work yourself up during our conversations; perhaps you even jack off during or after.  But THAT'S AS FAR AS YOU GO! 

     I'm tired of this kind of sub/slave.  Therefore no more newbies.

I had such a wonderful time in Cleveland!!!  Went to Bounce (a gay bar) and watched an entertaining drag show.  Then off to Tequila Ranch to ride the mechanical bull.   It's been a very long time since I danced My ass off!!!

Also got more in touch with My lesbian side.  Enjoyed female only company.

Once again I'm on My soap box folks.  ONE LINE MESSAGES ARE LAZY, RUDE, AND NOT CONDUCIVE TO CONVERSATION!!!!!!!!

Get the picture!!!

On another note, spending My spring break sick is NOT what I had envisioned...sniff, cough, cough!!!

Just an FYI  I am only here on the weekends.   I prefer www..com for daily conversations.

Once again I made the Dean's List!!!  Graduation is May 4th and then on to Grad school.

As I look at other Dommes' pictures I notice so many showing lovely feet and high heels, etc.   Sorry My pictures are to please ME, not you.  So sorry people, you will not see pictures like that on My profile.

Rockin out while working online.   WHY OH WHY do people send one liners??????  I know a multitude of Doms and Dommes say, "DO NOT SEND ONE LINERS?"   is it really that difficult to string words together?????

Happy New Year to All !!!!

Wow, after exchanging messages with some of you male subs/slaves I am stunned to see/hear how many of you expect to just fork over money in the first message exchange.   shaking head

Now, no disrespect to the Financial Dommes out there, there's room for everyone here BUT I am not one of those.  At all.

I have respect for the person who is talking to Me.  If we have some sort of chemistry then yes, I expect you to serve Me in a variety of manners; one which can be financial.

Do not think that means I will indulge you in mindless chatter all day.  My time is too precious.  So please when conversing have some idea of what you want to say to Me. 

What I love most about BDSM is the lack of bullshit.  Because most of us know what we are looking for and what we will accept; the process is streamlined.  Because most of us understand the level of trust needed for this type of relationship most of the usual BS goes bye-bye.

Another viewpoint is how tight my friends that are BDSM tend to be.  Whatever the need is they are there 100%, no questions asked.  Whether or not it is kink related they are there.  The ability to express exactly what I mean is another aspect not normally found in vanilla.  I don't have to sugar coat anything or worry about offending them.  I am who I am, freely, without any judgements.  What a wonderful way to live!!!!!

To clarify:  I AM NOT HERE TO SATISFY **your** FETISHES OR TO GET YOU OFF!!

Really people.  Come on, if you even bothered to read My profile you would see I am NOT interested in having SEX.  GOT IT?!!  Nor am I interested in being topped from the bottom.

What I am here to do is expand My knowledge of BDSM and share what knowledge I do have with others.

**SO**  If you are interested in sharing knowledge or being a real sub/slave then please contact Me.  Otherwise save us both time.

Vent finished, please tune into your regularly scheduled program.

Seriously disappointed that My possible slave/subs could not attend neither did My butler.   I understand that life happens but since I am a 24/7 I find it difficult to be patient with people that say they are into the lifestyle and call off meetings or simply no shows.

Done with My vent.  Hopefully these males will get their shit together.  I'm beginning to lose hope of finding a good sub.   :(

Wow I guess I still am pretty disappointed and I sure as hell don't like it.

Anybody else having this issue???  I'm asking all kinksters: subs, slaves, tops, bottoms, switches, Doms and Dommes.

The worst midterm is Tuesday.  Then the munch on Saturday October 27th!!!

Meeting two possible sub/slaves.  Hopefully My butler will attend as I miss him.

Winter Wickedness couldn't come sooner!  February seems sooo far away!!

Freaking midterms.  What I really need is for a sissy maid to come and clean my bathroom and kitchen.  My mind would be more settled and I could study better.

Then I'd get My canes and floggers and beat the rest of My stress out on My little sissy maid.  Throw in some CBT and that would be heaven!!!

Random thoughts -

Rain sure makes it easier to do homework and Midterms, the lure of my motorcycle isn't as strong.

Switched candles to fall scents.  Apple, cinnamon, teak, balsam, and mahogany are good ones.

BRING IT ON!!  Senior year of this degree!!

Hoping desperately to get a houseboy for cleaning, humiliation, and beating.

I hope school settles into a more peaceful routine....SOON.

Thankfully my beautiful motorcycle is my therapy for now.

Reading No Higher Honor by Condoleezza Rice.   WOW!  This is a slow but facinating read.  I am not happy that I know so little about the U.S. Middle East policies.  Shame shame.   But I'm working on learning more.  Anyone have any insights?

Summer break.   WOW!  I forgot what it feels like not to have multiple papers due.  Reading for my OWN pleasure.  It's intoxicating!!!

Many difficult challenges lately and although it makes me stronger, I'm tired.

My Dad passed away after a long battle against cancer.  Work - nothing more needed on that.  School - FINALS. 

Still looking for a slave/sub for My needs.  Male or Female - I don't discriminate.

Needs for a potential sub/slave - intelligence, servitude, and  mental flexibility.  Household chores, pain slut, and companion to lifestyle events.  NO SEX will be involved in any form.

Any takers???

Just for shits and giggles I looked thru some of the male Doms profiles.

GUYS  GUYS   GUYS   how on earth do you expect to get a person to respond when all you have is just the stats and nothing filled out on the profile and NO picture at all.  (shaking heads)

Random thoughts

Looks like the massive migraine of the past 5 days is finally going away.  After being in the ER for over 5 hours hooked up to an IV with various drugs coursing thru my veins and having NO relief, the end is hopfully in sight.

Of course I've missed 5 days.  5 days of work.  5 days of school.  5 days of studying.  5 days of working on my mid terms.  ACK!!!!

Less than 24hrs til Winter Wickedness!!!    I should be doing my homework but here I am answering messages and perving around CM and ...lol

I just am too distracted by all the fun that is about to happen at WW.

Ok, back to homework...  :(

WW is almost here!!  Whooppeee!!  I can not wait!  Going shopping tomorrow for the Friday costume party.  Theme - Military

First night is Domme night for Me.  I have a slave that is at My mercy.  Plus a fellow Domme is going to join Me.  Yummmmm

Saturday is switch night.  Part will be for my Sir and part for my fellow Domme... helping her with her sub.

Things that bring Me pleasure in the BDSM world as a Domme:

Making my sub/slave a sissy.

Having my sub/slave cross dress.

Receiving adoration from My sub/slave

Housework done by My sub/slave while he is naked or dressed as a woman.

Flogging, spanking, caning My sub/slave for a job well done.

When My slave/sub surprises Me with a thought out gift.  (something that will make Me smile)

Things that PISS ME OFF:

When My sub/slave is lazy, forgetful, or discourteous.

Not being addressed correctly.  It's Miss Stormy  or   Mistress Storm

topping from the bottom.  I make the rules!

Not returning messages - email, text, IM, whatever

sub/slaves that think just because I sent them a message they are now owned by Me.

Can't wait for Winter Wickedness!!  Wonderful scenes set up and the list is growing. 

Sleep?  Maybe the next weekend but not February 4th weekend!!  Bring it on!!!

Another semester has started.  Another series of challenges.

I'm waiting for one of my potential subs to heal from surgery.  My pet has moved.  I find myself without a sub to serve Me.   :( 

My Father is on his last days.  Plus I have finals.  Any more stress I could handle??

Due to a family illness I will be devoting all my spare time to my father.

Please be patient with replies.  I am very stressed and very busy.  I'm driving 3 hours each way to get to my father.

I continue to be thankful for My pet and My butler who are super subs and a Domme couldn't ask for better servants.

I am enjoying My pet and will soon enjoy My butler.

Due to massive amounts of mid terms, research, quizzes, and reading I barely have time to sleep.  Can't wait to next week when most of this will be under somewhat control.  LOL

While I appreciate eagerness to serve in a sub, let's get one thing straight.  Just because we have chatted on YIM doesn't mean we are meeting face to face tomorrow.  Do not think just because I am polite that I'm a push over or that I am going to let you run this show.  Yes, I am a switch, but I am also a Domme.

If you want instant service that screams to Me of financial arrangement.  If you want a committment then please respect that this type of relationship takes time, energy, and patience to build.

To you newbies out there.  Yes, eagerness to serve is a plus.  Impatience is a NEGATIVE.  Listen to the person talking to you.  Remember what they say to you.  We are trying to teach you for your BDSM life not just to hear or see our own words on a screen.

Rant is finished go back to your regularly scheduled program.

After talking with several male sub/slaves I'm sorry to find that many complain of the vast amount of "pro", fake, and wanna be Dommes.  On the flip side male Doms complain of mostly the same thing.  That the female subs are fakes and wanna bes that disappear as quickly as they appear.

Just what does that say about females in general.  Nothing good my fellow females.  (shaking head sadly)

On the other hand.  I can say that I've only had one issue with a potential sub.  We had arranged an in person meet and when I went to confirm the time this sub refused to talk to me.  Not even a, "go away" nothing, nada.  Rude, just plain old fashion rude!!!

Sadly, me father has been diagnosed with stage 4 cancer.  It is highly aggressive and his chances of survival are slim.

To my boys and those still under consideration, be patient.  I am attending to my father and family.

The new school semester has started.  WHAT A CHALLENGE!!!

First day and already 150 pages to read in ONE CLASS!!  A 5-7 page paper in the same class and all due in 2 days!!  YIKES!  I have a total of 5 classes this semester so things are going to get tight.

To my boys,  be patient.  I have given you assignments.  Work on them to the best of your abilities.  I will check in with you this weekend for your results.

To my Mentor.... she knows who she is.  Your praise is greatly appreciated as well as your knowledge.  :D

Hope this color combination works...lol

I am fine tuning my needs as far as my Domme side is concerned.  I must say that I am VERY happy and impressed at the quality of male subs that have contacted me.  They please me greatly!!

As always, I am happily in love with my Sir and thankful for him allowing me to re-open my Domme side!  (giggle)

Also, have met a fantastic Domme that I aspire to be more like.  She has offered some great advice.

Sir and I went to a munch in Columbus last night!  Fantastic event.  We met so many nice people.  What a great group of people.  Welcoming and warm.  They all were so real and friendly.

WOW, Bike Week was a lot of fun!!!  So many bikes! Some good bands.  And lots of interesting riders!!

My Sir and I are looking for singles and couples to ride with during the summer.

So I'm looking thru the couples ads.....my goodness, what entertaining reading!! LOL

I'd say 75% of the ads are single people.  They list themselves as a couple, yet in their profile they plainly say that they are SINGLE.  HUH?!  rofl

What am I missing?  lol

Finally did it!!  Got my nipples pierced!

It's refreshing to meet another D/s couple that is enjoying life!!

School continues to be a severe challenge.  Holding a 4.0 GPA is really getting tough.  The first 2 yrs were easy.  The uphill slope is getting slippery!!

Thankfully my Sir and I take time to stay connected and enjoy our relationship.

HEY BRATTYKIJIRA!!!  Gotta love snow, right?   LOL LOL LOL LOL

It's so sad to read that subs get visciously attacked thru messages. :(

Note to Doms out there..... a little bit of kindness goes a   L   O   N   G  way in building a relationship.  And in case you haven't noticed, there's a human being attatched to that sub. 

Another semester.... what a wonderful class load !!!

I'm so excited about my classes and professors!  Wow.. talk about getting lucky.  Each and every class is fun and informational.

It might be rough keeping my 4.0 as I am now full time and working.  YIKES!!

Sorry I've dropped the ball guys!!!

School has eaten up all my free time.  I'm on my 3rd year of having a 4.0 gpa and I can see the finish line.  Only 3 more semesters til I graduate with my BA.

So my desires must be put on hold for awhile.  It hurts.  My Sir and I value education and mine is almost done.

Today starts hockey season for me!!! OH YES!!

I'm a hockey referee.  Starting my 7th year!  I love this game.  Besides I get paid to exercise and I get to blow a whistle.  lol

Yes, I have a HUGE chip on my shoulder about being a female ref in a predominately MALE sport.  To my knowledge I'm the only "mature" female ref from Toledo to Youngstown.  There is one in Columbus and she's very good too.

The attitudes I get from male coaches (and I've been a coach too) range from surprise to disgust.  But since my skin is pretty thick and my tongue very sharp I manage.  "After all", I tell them, "Which one of us is getting paid?"

So far I've met some very nice ladies here.  As I stated in my intro all I'm looking for here is friendship from other female subs.  I have a Dom and I am happily collared.

That being said, I am surprised at times as to how enriching being a sub has become for me.  I'm finding more about myself almost on a daily basis. 

Surrending leads to more freedom in my case.