Time to update my profile, I am an alpha submissive, if that sounds confusing please read on. In life I am an alpha male; determined, strong-willed, aggressive and pushy. I am in charge and don't suffer fools lightly. That is exactly why I am submissive in my private life. I deal with an enormous amount of pressure daily, giving up control is therapeutic for me. Now you are asking, how does an alpha submissive serve? I always listen to my domme and serve with her best interests at heart. That includes bringing out the alpha man in me to protect her. It can be confusing and some dommes have commented that they didn't believe I was submissive. They came to understand that I submissive, but I am also protective of the people I care about. I do strive to be a gentleman in all of my interactions.  If you are in the NYC area I hope to hear from you.