Do us both a favor, read my complete profile before contacting me. Do not think that I am here to be insulted, I'm not. I try to be respectful of everyone I speak to – please show me the same respect. Please do not send me a chat invite or a friend request before we have even said a word to each other. Do not expect me to call you Sir, Master or anything else except your given name until such time as I feel it is appropriate.
I am submissive, it is who and what I am. I am also a novice. That does not mean that I do not have an opinion or something to say about matters. I am not looking for a play partner, I am looking for a life partner. I need truth, laughter, love, someone who will love me for me. I'm not looking to be micromanaged, had enough of that from my ex. I am looking for an LTR, eventually living together. My 27 and 25-year-old sons live with me. I will explain more if you ask me. If a Dom is going to become a full-time part of my life, then naturally they would know he is my lover. There would only be vanilla when they are around, sex and/or D/s behind closed doors. What I am looking for is a mix of D/s and vanilla. I understand relationships change and evolve and hope ours will as well. I am looking for something deep, meaningful and lasting.
I am looking for someone close to my own age who doesn't smoke or do drugs and only drinks socially. By drinks socially I mean no more than one or two drinks a day. I have had bad experiences with men who have had more than that and it is a deal breaker for me. You must not be married, involved or any other of not single if you are looking for anything other than platonic friendship. There are no exceptions to that, period. I am not into long distance relationships, they just don't work for me.
