I have a strong desire to experience creatively kinky minds and to share my own proclivities with willing

a willing partner. Looking for a person of passion and adventure.

My hope is to find one person with whom I can share this lifestyle on a regular or permanent basis. A good friend with Kinky Benefits.

I am a kinkster, and a switch. I can top or bottom.

It depends on who I am with and where my head is at that time.

I am more into the sensual side of BDSM than the brutal side.

There are a couple of areas that I am not comfortable with.. blood, urolagnia and scat are risks that I would prefer to avoid. I have no HIV/ STDs and plan to stay that way.

I am looking for a creatively kinky partner with whom I can mix torment and teasing / pain and pleasure to take on that rollercoaster ride of pain and pleasure.. fear and fantasy..

Interests: Both Giving and Receiving.

Anal Play I have a high desire for Anal Play.. toys, plugs, vibrators, fingers or what ever can be safely used.

Electrical Play I have had minimal experience in electrical play and found it intense and exciting.. Especially when it is preceded by genital shaving, a clean playing field if you will..

CBT for me... but I prefer the T to be more towards the Torment / Tease side than torture.

Clamps, Binding, Weights, Pumping, Milking, wax, ice, electrical play or a subbie the loves to give my cock the worship it deserves.

Nipple torture nothing like the rush given when a clamp is removed and nipple is sucked or massaged.. That will get your attention

Spanking / Paddling.. .I will administer it for the subbies pleasure and punishment.

Home Movies.. as long as my face is covered film away.. If our time together goes well I would like to be able to review the video with you to plan for our next session..should we decide to try it again.

Floggers / Straps/ Crops.. used gently and carefully these can add spice to play.

Safe Words.. I do like to have them in advance so that there is no confusion between verbal play and an actual signal that it is too much or getting to it..

I have used Green Yellow and Red in the past..

Green is a keep going response if the Dom asks how we are doing..

Yellow means I am hanging in there but proceed with caution..

Red means STOP..

Gags.. as long as . you can breath without a problem and can communicate if needed..I know they add to the flavor.

As for the type of person I am..

I am a masculine straight male with strong. fantasies, thus far unrealized,

I don't do drugs.. I drink socially, I hold down a full time job.

I am 5’10 and currently weight 280lbs

I am the guy at the mall, the co-worker, the neighbor.. I am sarcastic and irreverent.

I like to have a good time and to laugh and make others do so as well.

So … if any of this sounds like something you are willing to investigate with me then please write back.

Tell me about what really floats your boat..

What are your must haves for it to be enjoyable for you?

What toys / fixtures do you own and like to use?

I am not looking for a bedtime story or a screenplay... but please give me an idea of what I might experience on our first meeting
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I have a somewhat flexible work schedule so a daytime meeting is a possibility if that would work for you. I am divorced. But have a primary partner that I am living this wonderful thing we call kink.

I am not hiding anything nor cheating on anyone.

I have posted my facial photo here and on which should be some level of assurance.

Lastly.I am not a stalker or needy clingy person.

If we meet to play great.. If either one of us decides it is not going to continue.. it ends.. no fuss no muss..

Hope to hear from you soon.