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I am looking to meet someone with whom I can build a lasting and loving relationship. I am submissive and would like to explore a relationship as Female led. I say explore as my experience being submissive is limited but i have been on a journey recently to understand what this means to me and therefore what i can offer a Domme.
In many aspects of my life I am succesful. Higher than average education. A good job I enjoy. People consider me well travelled although i think it relative as there is still loads to see. A good social life with a broad range of friends and wide selection of interests and willing to give anything a go attitude.
Where I have been previously less successful is in my romantic life. I am trying to change that, part of this is i am trying to embrace the lifestyle more as I feel happiness and contentment lies within. For a little while now I have been actively learning about the BDSM lifestyle and more specifically Ds relationships. I have come to realise that I need to be more connected to others and allow myself to be more vulnerable and give myself to someone who can lead me. Furthermore I need to be honest, both to myself and others (not that I lie but I wasnt embracing my submissive self given society norms).
What can I offer the Domme of my dreams? Nothing makes me happier than seeing those around me that I love also happy. Making others happy in my experience involves giving over myself for others and checking my ego at the door. Whether spending time doing things that we can share, entertaining at my home or hearing of a challenge that I believe I can assist with or solve delivers that happiness. And all of which I find contentment and happiness and is i believe of value in a relationship, Ds or otherwise.
I am also realising that i find pleasure from reflecting during quiet times in my day on things that would please my Domme. Reward comes from acting on these musings no matter how simple the act and hearing and seeing Her pleasure.
BTW I am also an extremely practical individual that can turn my hand to many skills that are useful.
My experience is limited having previously only dated women who were largely vanilla but believe the journey I have been on has given me perspective on what I truly want as a submissive.
I would like to add that I am prepared to travel quite some distance to find that perfect ying to my yang.
In my free time i enjoy many regular pastimes, whether dinner and drinks, the movies or keeping active.
I also particularly enjoy rock climbing and hiking in addition to many other outdoor pursuits when the opportunity presents.
Filmwise i enjoy many genres including sci-fi which probably reflects my enjoyment of the sciences. I have a telescope as stargazing is simply magical, although i have to admit it has been a while since i got the equipment out. The UK can be a pain for stargazing as the summer has very few truly dark hours and the winter is either cloudy or so cold it takes a special kind of motivation.
As hinted at above i enjoy travelling and there are many places still to see. My ultimate bucket list locations would be Antarctica and space. Both of which might be a stretch but never say never. If you want to know my favorite places You will have to ask me as i could fill this box with my enthusiasm of places ive visited.
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I have been thinking about submission and what i think i have learnt from talking to others in the lifestyle and what it means to me.
I apologies if some of the below is a cliche but i find writing the stuff down helps me to process and hopefully will help those viewing my profile learn a bit more about me.
-submission is a gift and one i am willing to give to those who show mutual respect.
-submission should not take unduly from me. The submission i give is within what i am able to provide. Be it the limits i have or the things i need to do to remain healthy. e.g. work or other important relationships (family and friends) are not negatively impacted.
-being alpha in nature is not contrary to being submissive. Being alpha allows me to behave autonomously and allows me to take ownership of activities to the benefit of a Domme.
-submission should start with politeness and courtesy. Followed by a willingness to remain honest and and open. As trust builds allow oneself to be vulnerable.
-being submissive is about trusting another to do what is best.
-doing something that pleases another with no expectations other than to see that pleasure received makes me happy.
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| Age: 48 |
| Livonia,
Michigan |
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