So far.... meeting some people... is it just me or is it hard to make small talk?  I guess I want that instant connection with someone....  where it comes natural... is that possible on the internet lol...  this is hard when you have kids... you're never sure WHO you're talking to and I would never want to bring someone into my life that would complicate theirs and it seems like everyone I meet who's into the things I want is a decade older than me... Dear God just send me someone my age! lol... no offense to you older gents... I'm sure you could teach me a thing or two but....  I wish I lived in a city where it was easier to find the scene and just go out and meet someone... In these small northern towns there really is no scene lol.... which is why I'm here on this computer...