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Being submissive makes it difficult to find the right kind of man who is also looking for a long-term relationship. Im a shy girl so Im not one to go to a bar let alone bring up that Im interested in dominant men, so here I am. I am looking for a mature, educated, intelligent dominant man who is primarily interested in traditional relationship dynamics and domestic discipline.

For years, I always suspected I was submissive. I was always eager and desired to please who I was with but I just didnt have a label for it and I never had it recognized positively. I also knew I loved sex and wanted to be with someone I had the intense sexual chemistry and intimacy I needed and wanted in a relationship. A dominant man, the right kind, would always turn me on quite a bit and also intimidate me. I identify as a submissive with very strong slave tendencies. I am new to this but no less dedicated than someone who has had a Ds relationship. I have done a lot of research, soul searching, and discovery on my own and feel Im ready to commit myself to a relationship of this kind.

I am 33. I have long blonde hair, blue eyes, and fair skin. Im a girly girl and prefer dresses to pants. I recently finished my MA and hope to do a Ph.D. Im a bit of a nerd. I love to read and I am passionate about my field of study. I love fine dining, going to the movies, to a museum or a walk in the park. I dream about a relationship based on intellectual, physical and mental chemistry as well as structure and discipline. I think being compatible on multiple levels is very important.

If this interests you, Id love to hear from you. Please be single, dominant, and a gentleman.

Also, while I am back in Michigan after living in NYC for several years, I more than likely will be moving to a different state in a years time (JuneJuly 2020) due to graduate school.

Also, for those confused. Im in Michigan currently.
1/31/2018 11:30:01 AM
I will be in DC for an interview in a couple of weeks and will possibly be moving there in a few months. i changed my location though to DC just to see who is in the area. 
10/11/2017 11:23:08 PM
I'm no longer in NYC. I moved back to the midwest before I start my PhD, which will be in 10 months in either NYC, DC, the Boston area, or New Haven, CT. 

I'm definitely not interested in dating in Michigan because of this, so my profile will most likely just remain dormant for now.
10/3/2016 7:09:11 PM
I used to have series called "Shoe Porn" in my journal and every few months I'd have entries of shoes I love. I deleted all of the entries as most of the links and shoes aren't available.

But I thought I'd re-start it. 

So, Shoe Porn 2.0, here we are:

Gianvito Rossi Suede Pumps



LKB Tess Courts



LKB Floret



If you're thinking, hey, some of these are exactly the same. To which I say, no, no they're not. :)


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 Age: 40
  California