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***PLEASE NOTE*** If your serious about finding a match here fill out your profiles. We certainly understand some peoples reluctance to post pictures, however it is very difficult to know how to approach someone with a blank profile. There is no jumping off point.

Please take time to read through our entire profile. While we certainly welcome making new friends and enjoy helping anyone with questions, we are looking to complete our family with a very specific person. We are seeking the final piece of our poly-fi triad. We do not want to assume that everyone is aware of what a poly-fi triad is, so here is our definition

It is a closed triad (three person) relationship in which we will have no other partners but each other. We will be sexual together, as a group or in any pairing. No pair has more power or control in the relationship than the other partner. We will all have a voice in the decision making process for our family.

We are only looking for a Female that is BI or BI-curious. We would want you to engage in a real time relationship, serving us and the community so you must be willing to relocate in time, after getting to know us. You would be a sister slavesubmissive and partner to Heather as an equal. We desire to find someone that is handy, and could learn to do wood and leather working.

Our lifestyle is pretty much 50s household Polyfidelity. If you are unsure of what is meant by this, please ask. We have a myriad of vanilla interests, but were not here to talk about vanilla stuff right? Life is about 90 vanilla after all. Bdsm is great but there is more to life. We use both SSC and the RACK systems. We believe in both using and honoring safe words. We also feel safe calls are great until you know your partner well. We want a life partner as well as a playmate. Take time to get to know us and youll find out all about our adventures. Music is one of the interests we both share. He is an artist and works in multiple medias and finds a significant amount of joy in sharing his craft with his family. We have an etsy store selling great toys for lifestyle enthusiasts. He is known as TheKinkyTinkerer and she is LostwithoutSir on FL and usually hang out there.

He identifies as a Master, a Leatherman, and possesses some Daddy traits as He loves to take care of and mentor the people in his life. He can be as hard core as necessary. He does not believe in punishment, for punishments sake, he believes that punishment should be used to teach a lesson. He also doesnt believe in punishment for failure, but for failure to try. He firmly believes in personal integrity, as it is the key to building trust. He is highly intelligent and has been blessed with the ability to do about anything with his hands. He has been in the community for 30 + years, still continuing to learn a lot. He is financially and emotionally secure, and not looking to be someones sugar daddy. But He might enjoy being your daddy (wink). Love Motorcycles, Cars, Photography. Into just about anything fun. Open minded to about everything. He is an award winning artist, though He does not make a living at it. He finds intelligence in a woman sexy and, also likes it combined with common sense. He also likes curvy women.

She identifies as a slave, a Leatherwoman, and possesses some babygirl tendencies. She is a nurturer and spends a majority of her time caring for her Master and chosen family. She feels strongly that safety and education are key to the success of the family. She rarely sits still and tries to take on more than she should most days. She thrives under Masters guidance and is working to discover her true self. When she does manage to find some free time she enjoys reading and loves to write. She seeks beauty in all things but is also fiercely protective of those she chooses to surround herself with. Pushing her limits mentally and physically is something that she does on a daily basis. She has a head on her shoulders and loves to continuously learn. The journey she has been on over the last year and a half has been amazing and she feels that it is her responsibility to continue paying all her blessings forward.

We are active in the alternative lifestyle community. We attend munches and other special events regularly. This includes various events around the country. We regularly present on various BDSM, Ms, and Leather topics locally and are working towards becoming better presenters. We currently hold the title of regional Master and slave 2018. We love engaging in the community and sharing who we are with them. *The m and the dog are not ours. Thank you for taking time to read through our profile

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12/28/2021 2:15:28 PM

Wanting to edit our profile, my wife,   the Grey haired lady has passed after 30 years of marriage. It's just my self and my slave/switch. It takes so long to get re approved on profiles. Please say hi if you are interested in talking. 

 

David and Heather 


3/23/2018 6:42:18 PM
Sitting to the hot tub at KC fetish festival in th clothing optional pool area. Looking to be a great weekend.

3/9/2018 5:55:35 AM
In Dallas at South Plains Leatherfest! International Master/slave contest. Gonna be a great time.

1/6/2018 10:13:52 PM
Please, AND I cannot implore you enough, if we start talking, and you no LONGER wish to, just be a decent human being and a REAL woman and just say so. Don't just vanish or ghost. We are capable of handling rejection without being an asshole.

11/27/2017 8:32:52 PM
It thoroughly amuses me the number of slaves and submissive that come at us wanting to serve us, having neither read or comprehended our basic premise of who we are looking for. We clearly state it in our profile.

11/4/2017 8:47:47 PM
There is a difference between polyamory, and polyfuckery. We clearly state we are looking for a triad. But Realy, I don't think people read anymore.

9/17/2017 5:46:22 PM
I swear that the way some people on this site are pitiful, don't have the guts or tenacity to say I choose not to converse anymore. They just disappear after a two week conversation. I'm a gentleman. I can understand and respect no. Thank you for wasting our time with no explanation.

8/29/2014 6:17:54 AM
8/27/14 Rough couple of weeks, lost 2 lifestyle and 1 vanilla friend. And another one is in critical condition, got hit by a train while farming. That one is still a mystery. Life goes on. It's always better to be seen than viewed.

5/9/2013 10:20:58 PM

I so love intelligent conversation with great folks, that are capable of carrying on a conversation. Intelligence is sexy to me! I understand peoples time commitments, I have them too. but if all i get is a few one or two liners I'm going to loose interest soon. And sometimes it could be my fault, especially if I'm real busy. I'll give you a chance if you give me one.

 

Common sense is a real turn on too.


2/18/2011 6:27:29 AM

Profile addendum rant;

 

I do not like drama, life has enough with out adding more. In order for any relationship to work you have to have honest, open communication, personal integrity, respect, trust. Respect has to be earned. Trust is built with time. I'm pretty much an open book, I hold back very little. I tend to be a little blunt in communications, I get straight to the point. Id rather be a little annoyed and know exactly what you are telling me, than have to figure it out. A person can speak the truth at the top of their lungs and still be wrong, Its all a matter of interpretation. I can elaborate, ask me.

I am not a sadist by nature. Punishment has a purpose. And I would much rather love you than punish you. Pain is a means to and end for those who like the endorphin and adrenaline trip.. I would be happy to be your tour guide. I would love to scene with you for that purpose. I detest a brat, in order to be punished. Bratiness done in fun is good. I value obedience in a girl. I do not like to micro manage people. In a LDR a cell phone is an electronic collar, I expect you to answer and talk to me. I am respectful of your job, including what you have to wear. Casual and home attire is a different story, I expect you to dress smart and sexy. I am respectful of your family and friends. I am completely out as poly, and selectively out as kinky. I spend a fair deal of time at activities in the bdsm community, I would expect you to accompany me.

I am far from being a perfect human being. I try, I also tend to be a perfectionist. I can be hard on people around me, because I have high expectations. Life is an adventure to be lived, not a ride to be observed.

I have been blessed with a multitude of talents. I wont go into them all because the normal reaction is Bull Shit no body can do all that.

I also have the belief, if you have been blessed you should try to give back. I have and do.


2/24/2009 10:31:56 PM
I'm  really anxious to make some new friends.
 We are perfectly content in our lives. We are happy, and have been blessed with what we need and more. We love sharing our lives with folks that will take time to smell the roses.
 Life is a learning experience, I'm disappointed if I don't learn something new daily. I'm also one of those nuts that will talk to anybody anywhere. People that meet me never forget me. Was in California recently and ran into some one that knew me from Missouri. Just some one that had met me. I'm not that special, just have a zest for life and a positive upbeat attitude and it seems people remember that. 



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SarahSweet
 
 Age: 45
 Mid Uk, United Kingdom