12/4/2017 9:58:25 AM: I am finding it challenging to strike an appropriate balance between the 'mad-eyed Master who will tie you in a knot according to my whims and lash you until you pass out from screaming and over-orgasming' that many people say they want vs. the 'reasonable guy who will take the time to find out what you actually want and take your pleasure into consideration' that most of those same people actually need.