I am a single, refined and cultured guy with many years of experience in kink and fetish sexuality, but also a believer in lifelong learning. I am looking to meet an eager sub or a switch who is playful, intelligent and curious, seeking to explore and serve. I enjoy establishing deep, meaningful and long-term connections which extend beyond play and kink, but I am also open to various intensities, going from play friends to a strong primary relationship. I strongly believe in the idea of 'sharing is caring' and I am also open to meet and play with couples or attend private parties. As a kinkster, I am versatile, open minded and open to a dialogue about desires and likes as well as respectful of hard limits. I would situate myself more on the sensual/sexual side of the varied kink spectrum, but I also like to play in the sweetspot between pain and pleasure. The online for me is a conduit to in person meets and play sessions, not an end in itself.