6/15/2017 10:23:35 AM: Today is national flip flop day. In celbration of the favorite summer time foot wear send your favorite knikster a flip flop selfie or give your subbie a good smack. Happy flip flop day !!!

3/26/2017 8:24:24 AM: I believe that there is no such thing as a casual D/s dynamic. The reasoning behind people coining this term in the first place is simply is to justify the lack of emotional and mental dissatisfaction caused by engaging in this type of temporary relationship.  Often because the need for exploring and meeting the physical, fantasy, desire to serve, and carnal overpower the desire to find a person seeking the same dynamic. Knowing what you want, but just not finding it. The problem is not you. The problem is that there are not many D’s per capital to subs seeking that type of commitment. The s settles to quail the physical needs without short term consideration of the emotional or mental well-being. The dynamic is casual play partner or partners. The reason being that one play partner or the other is simply not looking for a D/s commitment of what you have designed in your head, and are truly seeking. The truth stand point is those boundaries set forth clear in the beginning. That is the trust or honesty clause when playing it up. Both parties are fulfill a physical needs only, and often times do not include sex. If you are a sub, and in a causal play partner dynamic; this can be one of the most difficult times if you can’t control and recognize the difference from what type of dynamic you are in as compared to what you really want. Think of it more like a hook up. The difference is a pairing for meeting mutual carnal needs. Both parties getting what that need without emotional attachment. The problem arise in causal play partner dynamic relationships when the s thinks that they can change the dynamic into a D/s or gives more mentally than they should. This is a direct consent violation to the D as those are not the terms or boundaries set forth from discussing the play partnership. Subs wonder at this time why they D is distant or just disappears. Communication slacks off. You are a liability at this point and the D wants nothing to do with a greedy needy sub. He just wants the Fun sub you agreed to be to serve him. You can’t change what someone is not willing to give or give up. You can change your outlook in playing in this manner. You can except that you are a toy, doll, other women, second whatever you want to call it.  You can leave at FUN with no strings. It is this simple. He is using you to feel a need of his. Nothing more and nothing less. Once you can accept that just as it is the better off you will be. If you can’t handle that, then don’t engage in casual play. Wait for what you want.

1/12/2017 7:56:09 PM: The girl in the box. That silent caged masked thing who's only purpose is a requiem for use.Oh how I envy That girl.

8/15/2016 10:41:50 AM: Hard to be Samatha Jones when your emotions allover the place. Finish a conversation is that too much ask. I guess that is why I am a slut that bakes. 

5/4/2016 9:59:12 AM: Today I could use a cocktail hold the tail. I guess we all have our own special definition of Happy Hour.