2/14/2018 2:34:11 AM: I've recently started to get back on the site as I remember the huge interest generated from eager submissive males to encounter a truly Dominant, experienced female that knows her shit and is naturally Alpha. Having the skill set that I do doesn't hurt either.I prefer doing online sessions but I am often asked for IRL sessions which require a lot of planning and negotiation but are entirely possible.When coming to me with such a request know that I want you to be serious. If you just want to talk about your interest or fetish that can be arranged in a different session for you.-Lola

6/27/2017 10:02:58 PM: So it seems to give the wrong impression when I suggest checking out My work to those I begin talking to about sessions...of all sorts. So, let Me clarify...I send my live cammodel link, usually if I'm on at the moment, for you to see I'm real, actually intelligent, interesting, and educated. I am not linking you for you to sign up. That is not the intention. Now, you are welcome to but you are clearly able to speak with Me a bit more directly so, you are allowed to message Me here. Basically, linking you to My camsite is a low-effort verification out of the goodness of My heart.I am actually very interesting to watch and you can do so without creating an account. If it cuts you off, just refresh the page. You may be instantly charmed, who knows.I am very real and down to earth, especially for someone in this industry. I'm also a rarity being genuinely in the lifestyle on top of actually trained and educated. Maybe this is hard to believe so I send proof of such of viewing Me in real time. Requesting a verification via skype or phone would require the purchase of a session. Watching Me work doesn't. I do get commission from those who sign up through the link I provide so, should you WANT to sign up, doing so through Me is actually really helpful, especially if you would prefer our interaction be through that website. Some actually do prefer the privacy of their payment system so, it's not unreasonable. I have a better option in that case which I can share but it's not a live cam site so you would just see a listing, not Me in 'performance' mode.I was motivated to write this because someone seemed to have confused Me for exactly the kind of person I want to avoid ever being confused with. I don't know if it's such an issue on this site but on social media there is an epidemic of young, fake 'instadommes' who are really misguided, arrogant sugarbabies who think it's easy money to claim to be a 'findom'. However if you aren't dominant, you can't offer what findom actually is. The word findom is two words: financial and domination. It's easy to include the financial part but if you aren't dominant then all you are doing is marketing your money fetish which who the hell wouldn't do that? A few women did this successfully so now thousands of young women go through a few month phase of attempting this and it does nothing but further destroy the actual power exchange that happens in this arrangement. That's another rant though.So I hope My link makes sense now. Thanks for reading.