So what I can promise you is that I will never lie to you (but this caries some responsibility for you; you should ask yourself if you really want an answer). In the vanilla world I am the alpha male. No one other than two ex-girlfriends would ever have any clue that I am interested in submission, but even they would have no idea how extreme my fantasies are.

I am highly educated, and have dedicated my life to improving the world around me with both the little daily gestures and in the grand scheme.

It is not my intent to find a 24/7 relationship, but rather an arrangement that meets your needs and that will be pleasure enough for me. Someone who understands these desires, whether or not we ever "play", for lack of a better word. Discretion is paramount. My limits are quite simple: no public play, no recording (photos, videos, etc.) no marks, no permanent physical harm (this is why I have a rule against urethral insertion).