Ive been curious about BDSM and domestic discipline for a long time, but I didnt decide to explore this properly until the end of my marriage. Strictly speaking, Im a kinky ish gentleman and a top rather than a dom, but with the right person I can become a proper dom, and I could even become a master.



I dont have as much experience as many people here claim to have, but I do have some, and although I tend to be a good-natured laid-back intellectual person, I can be very strict and I get serious and rough when I have to be, always open to getting feedback, learning and growing as a person, and always within a clear context of respect and of safe, sane and consensual kink. Id rather disappoint as a top or kinskter than go too far in a non-consensual disrespectful way. Im the opposite of a sadist, both within and without BDSM and domestic discipline.



Ideally, Id like to find a compatible kinky affectionate intelligent woman with an erotically submissive side and a sense of humor, and who likes learning and enjoying the little things in life (and Im not referring to my penis... kidding), and whose life isnt limited to rough sex and BDSM. However, Im open to friendship with compatible interesting people, and to more things.



Physically Im very tall (63 - 193 cms) and thin. I have dark hair, brown eyes and wear glasses. Pictures by request.