Well i guess i should update this. I am currently seeking a new partner I am looking for someone that is willing to explore the life style and go beyond her limits with me, that is willing to bloom and become more then she is now, I want someone who will be available to me that will not put me off I do not want someone who wants to play at being a slave/sub, but someone who is confident in themselves, that is willing to learn , not just be themselves but to become apart of me , I am not looking to jump into a serious realitionship right off so I am not looking for 24/7 quickly I want to get to know the person I am with so that they can trust me , this way you open up in all ways to me. I have many hobbies that keep me busy, hiking,camping,horses,historical re-enactments, rennisance festivals,scotish festivals and the like.