Hello, never really know what to put in these things, so I guess I'll just start off with an introduction. I am a 30 year old male Chinese Dom. I have been into BDSM for over 9 years now. I am searching for the right sub/slave to train and teach. I would like to meet someone who is open-minded and has a desire to serve and please another.

I believe that everyone who is into the lifestyle is into it for some particular reason. Some view it as just a kinky way of having sex, while others view it has a life commitment to another. I would like to be able to find someone to explore this with. I would like her to be able to come to me not only when I want her to, but also when she feels that she has the need to as well. I feel that in order to build a lasting and strong relationship, trust must be an important factor and one that should not be taken for granted. I understand that many have a need to keep their explorations discreet from those who are important to them.

I would like to find one who is in need of a caring in loving Master to guide them and teach them the things that this lifestyle has to offer them. I would like someone who I can not only train, but also talk with, laugh with, and just enjoy each other's company with. I would like to have one who I can care for and look after so that she feels safe whenever she is with me. Yet I want someone who will accept punishment should they disappoint me in their actions and know that what they did was wrong.

I'm not sure how much of that people will really read, but I am also here to make friends, so if you read this far and I don't strike you as someone you would like to be with, that does not mean that I would not want to have you as a friend as well. So please feel free to send me a message and we'll see where that goes. There are many things people cannot discuss in real life due to fear of the way others will see them. I think this is a great place to discuss those feelings, even if nothing should come out of it. There's always something new to learn about yourself and hopefully we can learn something new every day of our lives.

Outside of the lifestyle, I like being fairly random. I am the kind of person who will message someone just to say hello or see how they are doing. I will sing along to pretty much every song on the radio. I'm a big tech fan. Typically will research or buy most new pieces of technology when they come out. Enjoy watching tv shows and movies. Usually on Netflix just streaming constantly in the background. I like going to the gym or biking outside. I love trying new and different restaurants and different kinds of food. I could probably go on and on but it may be too much rambling.

Anyways, if you've read this far I'm very thankful you took the time to read. I hope to hear from you if you'd like to talk about anything, BDSM related or not. I hope you all have a wonderful time here and find what you are looking for.