Old Profile:
First off, it's nice to meet you. I know I haven't met you yet, but I'd like to. I'm generally interested in talking to people, though on here I often take a long time to reply. I'm here because I'm seeking. I'd like to find a partner who complements my kinky interests as well as shares some of my more mundane interests. I'm still more than happy just to make friends, though that's always easier if you're local. There's so much value in actual face to face content, even as I appreciate the relative safety of the electrons.
In describing myself, the easiest parts to mention about me are the things I like to do. For example, the two activities that fill up most of my time are reading and computer programming. Those are the ways that are most accessible for me to learn or to be creative, which are very important to me. Cooking is another way I express both of those values. I'm always futzing with my recipes, trying new ones, or attempting new techniques. Of course, there's the added benefit that I get to eat tasty dishes (usually.) I also like to be active outdoors. I'm always up for a hike or a run, and I own a motorcycle because of how close it makes me feel to my journey. Most of all I like to build things. Almost anything: furniture, luggage, clothing, robots. Working an a project, and especially finishing one, make me feel like my knowledge is applicable and worth something. I like learning, but I like ever so much more applying my experience.
Harder to render into text is my personality, but I'll try. By default, I'm a mellow, patient person. I'm at least partially an introvert, and I tend to operate very independently. I'm not shy, but it might appear that way because I'm happy enough to watch the flow of things around me. On the other hand if you turn me on to one of my passions or even one of yours, I can seem like a different person. I'm still generally patient, but I'm at least partially an extrovert. I actively want to learn more that can be added to my passions, so I want to find out what you can add to the story. I also always want to see how your passions can give me new perspectives.
I'm on CollarMe to find a slave. I have hopes and expectation for the person who that will be, but they aren't written in stone. I'm a flexible and dynamic person and I won't deny anyone else the same latitude. Sometimes I will want a doll: a girl to dress up and play with, either in or out. Sometimes I'll want more of a companion or even accomplice. Someone to be content with in the quiet moments. Someone who is active enough to keep up with me or even challenge me. Somedays I want her to be constantly kneeling and ready for my every need or desire. Somedays I want to spoil her and delight in her responses. I always want to control her. My control has many expressions; each one should reaffirm that she is mine, that she has trusted me with her continued consent, that I have trusted her with one more piece of me, and neither of us has walked away.
I don't need a slave. I'm a very independent person. Nor am I bound to my kinky interests. I could be content with vanilla. However, I am seeking a slave to fulfill more completely my kinky desires. I've had two slaves over the years who were able to some degree to do that. The first found it eventually incompatible with her deepest self; with the second we just didn't have the right chemistry. I'm seeking someone who knows that she is giving her whole self into my hands and deeply desires my control and dominance.
My first love was rope bondage which was first introduced to me through the Sean Harper usenet posts. I found it beautiful, elegant, and entrancing. As I explored the BDSM world, I found myself distinctly drawn to TPE and D/S even more. The sensuousness of rope bondage has never lost any of its appeal, it's only ben enhanced by the trust dynamic intrinsic in TPE/DS. I have some affinity to sadism and masochism, but they never have had my complete affection.
I'm far from expecting all of this to jive with anyone. I am who I am, and I'm more than happy with that. Though if some of this does resonate with you, I hope to hear from you. I'm slowly and patiently seeking a life partner who can be an intimate friend and a kinky accomplice. I'm an unassuming dominant with a penchant for silliness and an adoration of elegance. In my ideal world, you'd be a willful slave with a creative wit and a compassionate heart.
I'm well aware that this is a long and probably dry accounting, but I think it gives a good sense of me and some of what I find important. I'd love to hear from you, even if you think I'm not for you. I'm not always so pedantic, even if I do like big words. I think everybody is interesting and worth listening to and hearing about. I'm deeply interested in other people's passions and philosophies for life. Good luck in your search, and take care!